Church

[holyredemptionx]

Ok well me and my really good friend were talking tonight and i ended up bringing up the topic of trust and she brought up church she is a christian but she doesnt beleive in mary and saints - so i said i regret an online relationship I had because it was stupid.unsafe. and I lost complete trust in my family.. so when i told her i hate when i had lost all the trust in my family bothered me because im good and i dont always like to go against my family she had said :"I wouldnt have cared[if she lost all her trust] i would have still talked to him." So im like well Im good and i dont like to be bad because my friends are. Then i said you lose all your freedom when you lose trust in your family - She says: i have my ways to get the things that I want.. Then I said do you like not beleive? and shes like im not strong i know he died on the cross for our sins and stuff and im not religious.. then she says like i dont see why we have to go to church and im like ummm y? n shes like because its weird and i was like shocked because i mean shes always going to church .. Im worried about her because she seems to be like a follower to me anything her friends do she does 1. friends started watching anime porn then she started 2. one of her friends who is really nice used to be strong in her faith then she became lower in faith like her dad and then she began to not think going to church is important and so now her is one of my really good friends I have grown up with and she is now saying she doesnt want to go to church and its weird.. Its just dissapointing..

Discuss:
how to confront her about it
More ways on why we go to church
and whatever u think u need to put in lol t

Thxx again :]  

[Act of Random Kindness]

iiiiiMan that's hard to read. Would you mind indenting a little more please next time? mrgreen

iiiiiAnywho, I can't help you on how to confront her, I'm stuggling htere too, but I do have reason s for her to go to church.

1. Unless she expects to read and understand the bible at a pastoral level once a week, she should go. I mean, at church, a someone who is usually levels above in faith is sharing with you their revalation of the word. That's like Mia Hamm offering to coach you in soccer. You could learn yourself, but why would you when someone more experienced is willing help?

2. The fellowship is another reason. One can cast 1,000 to flight, 2 can cast 10,000. how bout 5? 10? 100? 1,000!!!!

3. Where else is she gonna give her tithes and offerings? I mean, will she really start a collection for God on her own?

There are my reasons. Sorry I could help you more than this. sweatdrop