A problem

[rftkfan]

My online and real life girl is Tarah_titan. She goes to a church I do not feel comfutable in. I go to a church with my son she does not feel comfortable in. The church I go to is very southern. in there music and belifs. The big difference I will not go into.  

[Curium]

rftkfan

My online and real life girl is Tarah_titan. She goes to a church I do not feel comfutable in. I go to a church with my son she does not feel comfortable in. The church I go to is very southern. in there music and belifs. The big difference I will not go into.

Sounds like you go to a church that is oriented from Southern Baptist. Does she go to a more conservative church? Like Pipe organs and stuff like that and only sing songs from the hymnal books? Anyway.....are you asking us what you should do? If so, I suggest finding a church that is in between both. Not too radical, not too conservative. Something you both would like.  

[SinfulGuillotine]

Sounds like you should probably look for a new church that makes you both feel comfortable.

Since I don't know what the differences between your two churches are, I can't really offer any advice beyond that.  

[tarah_titan]

at one time i was a stripper. the main problem and i'm sure rftk didn't notice is that some of the guys went to the club. i'm out of the club now and don't want people thinking of me as that person. his is southen baptist. and mine is contempary. great music and no twang in there songs.  

[Curium]

tarah_titan

at one time i was a stripper. the main problem and i'm sure rftk didn't notice is that some of the guys went to the club. i'm out of the club now and don't want people thinking of me as that person. his is southen baptist. and mine is contempary. great music and no twang in there songs.

So...I'm sure the guys won't say anything to you. Because they know you saw them there. It's sort of like you have blackmail on them and they on you. But I understand how you would be uncomfortable. Why don't you both just find a different church that you can both feel comfortable in?  

[rftkfan]

Until I saw it in writing I did not think of it. I will try to loosen up a little.  

[Curium]

rftkfan

Until I saw it in writing I did not think of it. I will try to loosen up a little.

It's neither of your faults...just work together on this one and don't argue or anything. It will end peacefully. biggrin  

[tarah_titan]

Curium

rftkfan

Until I saw it in writing I did not think of it. I will try to loosen up a little.

It's neither of your faults...just work together on this one and don't argue or anything. It will end peacefully. biggrin

yeah right have you ever tried to live with him? blaugh  

[Curium]

tarah_titan

Curium

rftkfan

Until I saw it in writing I did not think of it. I will try to loosen up a little.

It's neither of your faults...just work together on this one and don't argue or anything. It will end peacefully. biggrin

yeah right have you ever tried to live with him? blaugh

can't say that i have....anyway...instead of worrying about going to either of the churches you both currently attend...find ANOTHER one.  

[rftkfan]

That is what we are going to do.  

[Curium]

rftkfan

That is what we are going to do.

I'm glad to hear that. biggrin