v****a questions.

[taking-risks]

The other day I was masturbating, and usually I'll finger myself and play with my c**t at the same time. But this time, I wanted to try using something "bigger" instead of my fingers, so I grabbed this long plastic thing I had in my room, and it wasn't too big, but I guess it was too big. It wouldn't even go in my v****a, because it was too big. I can usually fit a finger or two in there, but now i'm scared that I'm never going to be able to have sex.

(I'm a virgin)

I guess i'm just wondering if this is normal, or if this is a problem.

 

[LorienLlewellyn]

Vaginas are stretchy, like elastic. But in order to stretch properly, you need to be sufficiently lubricated, aroused, and relaxed. If you were trying to insert something new and were kind of nervous or unsure about it, that could have been enough to cause you to tense up, which would make insertion difficult.

So there is probably nothing wrong with your v****a. You will probably be able to have sex just fine. Always make sure you're well lubricated, aroused, and relaxed before you try to insert anything. And always make sure that anything that you insert is clean and safe for your v****a. If you still have trouble with insertion even when you're well lubricated, aroused, and relaxed, then talk to a doctor about it.  

[Little-Lenah]

When I was first experimenting with stuff, I found I could fit very little in. (All I had on hand was one of those fat glow sticks at the time. It barely fit. Honestly though, it wasn't very smart of my 13 year old self) But I kept playing, and found the more I got accustom to putting something in, the easier it became to stretch it.

So if you want to explore, do so. It's good to learn about yourself. Get relaxed, get comfortable. If you find it hurts, set it aside and come back another time.  

[taking-risks]

LorienLlewellyn

Vaginas are stretchy, like elastic. But in order to stretch properly, you need to be sufficiently lubricated, aroused, and relaxed. If you were trying to insert something new and were kind of nervous or unsure about it, that could have been enough to cause you to tense up, which would make insertion difficult.

So there is probably nothing wrong with your v****a. You will probably be able to have sex just fine. Always make sure you're well lubricated, aroused, and relaxed before you try to insert anything. And always make sure that anything that you insert is clean and safe for your v****a. If you still have trouble with insertion even when you're well lubricated, aroused, and relaxed, then talk to a doctor about it.

Thank you so much!  

[taking-risks]

Little-Lenah

When I was first experimenting with stuff, I found I could fit very little in. (All I had on hand was one of those fat glow sticks at the time. It barely fit. Honestly though, it wasn't very smart of my 13 year old self) But I kept playing, and found the more I got accustom to putting something in, the easier it became to stretch it.

So if you want to explore, do so. It's good to learn about yourself. Get relaxed, get comfortable. If you find it hurts, set it aside and come back another time.

thanks! heart