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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 10:41 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 12:19 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 12:32 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 12:54 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 1:35 pm
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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 3:59 pm
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Well I'm also a switch. But I choose when I want to be submissive.
Dom: My turn offs are: When a subject is bitchy and doesn't want to listen, a subject who wants all the attention, subjects who beg, subjects without a backbone, and subjects who hardly say a word.
I've experienced a lot.
Sub: My turn offs are: Dom's who change a person to what they want, who don't listen to the subject, abusive in anyway, being treated as property and not as a human being, don't talk to the subject, don't care about the subjects health issues and other real life problems, Aggressive, and too commanding and controlling.
Yeah I've seen a lot.
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Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:46 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 12:52 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 12:57 pm
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Dishonesty, both sub and domme are what irk me. I don't mind if you've got something to do, and you're gonna have to go after you do that, or even in the midst of it. I only wish that the partner would mention any prior engagements. In that line, it's only minorly annoying that people would like to be tranced, but then make no time to set aside to enjoy it.
Another common thing I tend to dislike is the multitasking bit, especially if I am really trancing you! It's a little bit of an insult, as well as a show that you're not here to take it seriously. In an RP, a simple bracket with (Hey, can we continue later?) Is much more easy for me to accept, rather than you just got done fapping and instead of feeling embarassed to admit you can't last. You just leave. Bah!
As a sub, I really just dislike when you can pour your heart out to someone, or put an honest effort or give of yourself, and it seems like it's another regular occurance. Too often people are set in routines and ease, so that things tend to falter. Things such as inductions and RP falling y the wayside in favor of the quick orgasm triggers. Sometimes fun, but there are places for such things and then there are not. *nod* Topping from the bottom is something I tend to abhor, as do much of the dominant comunity. But inverse, I also dislike when a domme is set to their ways, and will not even think to deign any requests or concerns as reasonable. A selfish desire for pleasure should never outweigh the fun and dynamics of trance and hypnosis.
And both of my sides definitely hate fake people. It takes a strong sense of character to open up and be yourself, especiaily in this kind of community and friend, but lying about it will only hurt others in the long run. You are as you want to be, but leaving people behind, domme and sub alike, causes lots of frustration, pain and heartbreak. Taking trance and the bond between hypnotist and subject and trivializing it will hurt people. Don't do it.
Oh, and my other minor peeve is that my submissive side needs more playtime. Yeah I said it wanna fight about it? <3 xD
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 7:38 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 12:39 am
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 10:06 pm
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I suppose I can post here, as I am also in this category. Though I will feel a bit uncomfortable with it due to date and time gaps. ... let me be paranoid.
Dom: When you're a switch, mostly those who come to you are either subs or switches with more submissive tendancies - or, at least, those are who I myself have been getting lately. It annoys me greatly when everyone who comes to play expects me to be the dominant party all the time.
Sub: Weak trance material and repetition to the point where it gets tedious. 'Obey ___, obey ____, obey ____' more than one hundred times in a few exchanges does not count as trance. Also, anything involving - as some have affectionally coined - 'girlfriend play', as it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.
I honestly don't mind the whole 'being owned by one' aspect, though too many have taken it much too far when I'm only asking for roleplay. I don't want to be chastised every time I'm called away abruptly, as I often am, and don't have time to write you a detailed note on why I missed your private message.
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 2:28 pm
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