I really need some advice

[Raving Exile]

See i like this girl... shes wonderful, makes me smile all the time and i cant get her out of my head.... the propblem is.... Shes 14....

HELP ME PLEASE!!!! idk what to do  

[DemoZero23]

Raving Exile

See i like this girl... shes wonderful, makes me smile all the time and i cant get her out of my head.... the propblem is.... Shes 14....

HELP ME PLEASE!!!! idk what to do

well...how old are you? that would help alot xD  

[Raving Exile]

animeandemo123

Raving Exile

See i like this girl... shes wonderful, makes me smile all the time and i cant get her out of my head.... the propblem is.... Shes 14....

HELP ME PLEASE!!!! idk what to do

well...how old are you? that would help alot xD

19.......  

[Elixias]

Hm... well, maybe you'll like to observe your feelings for her first?
She's 14 and that's still quite young..

And the thing when it comes to love, it's a test of time too. If you really like her perhaps you should consider waiting 4 more years?  

[A BlindMans Porn]

i wouldn't put a time exactly {{event hough 4 more years would be ideal}} i'd just wait it out as long as you can, because despite those feelings, she may not nderstand how serious things can get

and things might move on a bit fast, or a bit too slow depending on how she takes it, etc.

on another note, to me age doesnt matter...once it's reasonable.

how many relationships has she had til now? and how long did they last?  

[Juxtaposedjoker]

She's under the age of consent. STAY AWAY. Find out the age of consent in your state. For most states, it's 15-16. You could be looking at some serious charges just for flirting with her. The hysteria over ***** in this country is something to seriously think about. Especially, if you too are a woman. Add gay to underage and they are ready to burn you at the stake.

Don't email, gaia message, IM or txt with her. All of these things can be retireved by her parents. Honestly, the best thing you can do is move on. Find someone else because there is always someone else. Four years from now, if you even still think about her at all and I'd bet good money you won't, then look her up. Do anything else and you risk a lot more than a broken heart.  

[Lady Neona]

At 14 you still have alot to learn about dating, life and boys. She is probably still pretty new at the dating game and doesn't know what she is looking for yet.

In the end it will probably be heart break ((Will admit there are few rare cases where it lasts)), or in a ***** charge.

I am all for love and I agree age is a number, but our society thinks diffrently.  

[DemoZero23]

Raving Exile

animeandemo123

Raving Exile

See i like this girl... shes wonderful, makes me smile all the time and i cant get her out of my head.... the propblem is.... Shes 14....

HELP ME PLEASE!!!! idk what to do

well...how old are you? that would help alot xD

19.......

oh....well...
well i cant help you :/
yea, you'll have to wait a lil bit, either that or keep it a secret xD  

[Jellen-chan]

Lady Neona

At 14 you still have alot to learn about dating, life and boys. She is probably still pretty new at the dating game and doesn't know what she is looking for yet.

In the end it will probably be heart break ((Will admit there are few rare cases where it lasts)), or in a ***** charge.

I am all for love and I agree age is a number, but our society thinks diffrently.

I agree ^^' ***** is so big today that I think it may be best to stay away or just to stay friends.  

[Shanna66]

your 19, an adult who should pretty much know how relationships work and know enough about the world to know what you want out of life and a partner.

she is 14 and just comming to that age when its time to start learning

i would wait a few years. if its meant to be then waiting wont matter. just make sre you dont rush it for her sake


love knows no age when its 2 consenting adults, but when its an adult and a very young teenager your minds are doing completely different things and it would be too easy for you to accidently take advantage of her  

[BlueberryCondomBomb]

Well I'm not the one to talk about age difference but I would just advice you to make sure she understands what's going on.  

[Raving Exile]

SugarBerryxoxo

Well I'm not the one to talk about age difference but I would just advice you to make sure she understands what's going on.

she understands. she has been in 2 relationships. and they lasted 9 months and the other lasted 8 months. she told me she loved me but now im still confused....  

[Ena Hitachi]

Raving Exile

SugarBerryxoxo

Well I'm not the one to talk about age difference but I would just advice you to make sure she understands what's going on.

she understands. she has been in 2 relationships. and they lasted 9 months and the other lasted 8 months. she told me she loved me but now im still confused....

To be quite honest, id stay away. tell her about what can happen to you and that you think it should wait. maybe its supposed to be, but try explaining that to her parents AND a judge. just saying but on the same note, i know EXACTLY how you feel. same problem only im 16 and hes... your age. heh. ut seriously! WAIT!!!!!!!  

[eat more happy]

I'm going to be pretty straightforward with what I'm saying; keep in mind anything I say can be thrown out the window if you're not happy with it. I don't really care, lol. smile

Anyways, you need to understand for the sake of how young she is, that her mind is still developing at an incredibly fast speed. Anything dramatic that happens in her life might be implemented in her mind the strongest. Therefore theoretically speaking, if you happen to get into a relationship with her and suddenly you two get into an argument, it might hurt her a lot more than it might hurt you. (Simple example)

So just because she may be tending to your personal emotional needs and wants, doesn't necessarily mean she'll make for an amazing partner...yet.

If you're really interested in her, wait a few more years. No fourteen year old would seek a relationship with an older man/woman unless they're missing something deep within themselves. For the protection of a developing mind, body and spirit, be her friend. If you can't do that, take a break until those feelings subside.

She needs to be focused on who she is as an individual before she can focus on you. She needs the time to experience her world safely and rationally. Unless she's a miracle case of a fourteen year old who knows what they want out of a relationship and can provide mentally, emotionally, physically and sexually, then please be smart and stick to those of legal age.

 

[Raving Exile]

She told her parents about me.... s**t!!!!! Now they want to meet me. like her mom called me and said that she just wants to talk... but they said they dont mind... now im confuzzled