Love Spells: Yay or nay?

[Wing-Goddess]

love spells for a relationship while in one...are only ok if you have your partners permission otherwise I would say avoid it  

[TheDisappearingIdiot]

I think love spells in general are fine, but not if they're done with a certain person in mind. Spells that attract love are fine...Eh.  

[Funa Spectrum]

As far as I'd go with love spells is to make someone notice me. Not to create love, but if nothing happens after that, then it isn't really meant to be, I figure. Maybe I could excuse it with speeding things up.

In theory, anyway.  

[CosmicCrystal]

I agree with what Dark_Angel and a few others said, love will find you when it does. Obsessing over it, i believe, pushes it away. Focus on being the best person you can be and the rest will follow.

So in case it wasn't clear, I disagree completely with love spells.  

[xaznbbyd0ll]

too2sweet

Generally speaking, it may be ok to do a spell or ask for a blessing that makes you attract love (or makes you more loveable), but spells should never be done to make a specific person love you. As Josephine said, you should never mess with free will. Personally, though I wouldn't necessarily do even a general spell, because you could end up with more than you barganed for (like an unwanted stalker).

I agree. smile  

[Moonwynne]

As long as you don't have someone in mind, or are picturing an actual person when doing it, I s'pose it is alright. Just don't harbor anyone's free will. That's a big no no.

Personally, I wouldn't use them.

^^  

[Elloth]

I've never cast a love spell before, but a friend of mine has. He says that there very easy to mess up. this one time he cast a love love but it terned in to a lust spell and... well I don't think I need to go in to detials. He also says that the only way to undo it is to cast a hate spell.  

[dark_angel_32189]

That's not true. You wouldn't have to cast a hate spell... you could cast a spell to make someone unattracted to you or uninterested in you, but you wouldn't have to make them hate you.  

[Zelroth7]

I think spells that call general love to you is ok, but using one on a specific person isn't in my honest opinion.  

[Fr O sT B yTe X3]

I totaley agree with anyone who said the dissagree, forceing someone is absoulutly wrong! But heres a thought, what do you do if someone casts one on you? How do you undo it? I was thinking about this while reading this and decided to say it.  

[dark_angel_32189]

Well, how would you know if you had a love spell casted on you?  

[Moody Magic]

Neat topic since Valentines Day is nearing. smile I agree with what everyone else said about manipulating someone's will since it just wouldn't feel right anyway. Also, I think you could do a tarot reading or cast runes to see if a love spell was cast on you. Not sure about that though.  

[Fr O sT B yTe X3]

Yeah but really, how would you break a love spell if it was put on your friend or maybe even you? Its really interesting id like to hear all your opinions on the matter.  

[little miz giggles]

love spells are never directed at one person, i see what you mean, i've never tried one but personly i think that some of them are just questing love, not making it happen.  

[Smex Flavored Jellybeans]

General love spells and charms are fine, as
long as you arent trying to have someone
specific fall in love with you.