All because of a call........

[Optical Illision]

I can't look or talk to my best friend. I like him. ALOT. Well one of my other friends "borrowed" my cellphone, called, and told him that I like him. When we get the balls to call each other we either don't answer because we don't want the akward silence that follows(me), or answer say hi find out who it is and hang up(him). I went down to his house to drop off one of his jackets he forgot. He closed the door in my face. We can't look or talk to each other. Any ideas? I could REALLY use them.  

[Seraph68]

One thing you could do is ask him what he thinks about what he was told. You could also reassure him that he's been a good friend. Maybe ask your friend who called him to apologize to him, for starting this awkward situation.

One thing that will help is to answer when he calls, he has got up the courage to call you and it shows that you respect that if you answer. Even the most outgoing guys can be timid with a girl they like. But a word of caution, he may also be trying not to hurt your feelings. From what you have said, it could go either way.  

[Optical Illision]

Ok. After school on the way home from the bus stop he was there. Well.....first it was odd. We said hi and after a little bit it got better. We sat outside my house and talked for awhile. I don't remember alot of it one of the things I remember is him asking me how long I've liked him. That and being hugged. It was so....I don't know. One minute we're talking and the next he's hugging me. He got up and ran to his house faster than I've seen him run before.  

[Mjolnir The Hammer]

So are you guys legitimately going out now? I'm just as confused about this as you are, and that's pretty darned!! xd

I hope you guys do. You like each other a lot, why not?
No more dilly-dally shilly-shally. whee

 

[missymisa]

Optical Illision

Ok. After school on the way home from the bus stop he was there. Well.....first it was odd. We said hi and after a little bit it got better. We sat outside my house and talked for awhile. I don't remember alot of it one of the things I remember is him asking me how long I've liked him. That and being hugged. It was so....I don't know. One minute we're talking and the next he's hugging me. He got up and ran to his house faster than I've seen him run before.

.....AWWWWW! that's the cutest thing ever! whee He really does like you! The shyness factor will go away after a while.....just remember....that if you do get inot a relationship with this boy, and you break up, you friendship with him will never be the same....no matter how hard you try.....that is.....if you don't go past hugging or something....but even then.....it will be different, maybe not that much....but yeah....  

[lordstar]

etchedspirit

Optical Illision

Ok. After school on the way home from the bus stop he was there. Well.....first it was odd. We said hi and after a little bit it got better. We sat outside my house and talked for awhile. I don't remember alot of it one of the things I remember is him asking me how long I've liked him. That and being hugged. It was so....I don't know. One minute we're talking and the next he's hugging me. He got up and ran to his house faster than I've seen him run before.

.....AWWWWW! that's the cutest thing ever! whee He really does like you! The shyness factor will go away after a while.....just remember....that if you do get inot a relationship with this boy, and you break up, you friendship with him will never be the same....no matter how hard you try.....that is.....if you don't go past hugging or something....but even then.....it will be different, maybe not that much....but yeah....

I would say that relationships don't just suddenly change or poof and disappear

It is more like a slow progression from instance to instance

example
love does not go away...it might hide from your sight but there is no disappearing act

its 3am so if the above seems a bit off and random...it is at the least random  

[Chobits_lover399]

Yeah he Proabably is shy but don't push it or it might end up bad...  

[Optical Illision]

Update on me and him. We were talking and then one his friends did to him what was done to me. Our parents have forbidden us to talk to each other. I'm grounded and have no cellphone because he called,
and it's not helping that he was acting slightly suicidal before, but he's getting worse, and I see him maybe 3 times a day. I have one our frineds keeping tabs on him. But he's going to his room right when he gets home from school and isn't eating. I've noticed the past few days some healing scars on his arms, but he won't talk to me about it. In fact we're back to glancing at each other and then watching the other over our shoulders. No talking. My dad has been escorting me to and from the bus to make sure I can't talk to him. And the notes we gave each other, my dad got to one before me and it was shreded and then burned. I have to hide anything he's given me from my dad. Any ideas on what to do?  

[lordstar]

Optical Illision

Update on me and him. We were talking and then one his friends did to him what was done to me. Our parents have forbidden us to talk to each other. I'm grounded and have no cellphone because he called,
and it's not helping that he was acting slightly suicidal before, but he's getting worse, and I see him maybe 3 times a day. I have one our frineds keeping tabs on him. But he's going to his room right when he gets home from school and isn't eating. I've noticed the past few days some healing scars on his arms, but he won't talk to me about it. In fact we're back to glancing at each other and then watching the other over our shoulders. No talking. My dad has been escorting me to and from the bus to make sure I can't talk to him. And the notes we gave each other, my dad got to one before me and it was shreded and then burned. I have to hide anything he's given me from my dad. Any ideas on what to do?

you do have a few options open to you, however, none of them are good

now I must say that all parents involved are not helping matters with such malicious psychological trauma

perhaps one day they will wake up to the fact that if they continue such behavior they may live their final days cold and alone

harsh I know but such is life  

[Optical Illision]

Yeah. Parents aren't helping much. If you go by what they say he's a good for nothing, soon to be druggie, who will never amount to anything. An I'm a little miss goody two shoes, who acts like I'm too good for him, and I'll be the little b***h you see in Wal-Mart with 5 or 6 kids in tow.
I disarge with both, he is good for something, at least a friend, he won't be a druggie, I'll make sure of that, and he amounts to alot. If someone can regonize the talent he has, he'd be set. That boy can pick up anything and play it. And I'm not a little goody two shoes, he knows that, if I act like I'm better than him why would I constatnly be asking about him, or going down to see him, because, I like him more than words can say. We have lunch at the same time so we're supposed to meet each other today during lunch. Hope that goes ok.  

[lordstar]

Optical Illision

Yeah. Parents aren't helping much. If you go by what they say he's a good for nothing, soon to be druggie, who will never amount to anything. An I'm a little miss goody two shoes, who acts like I'm too good for him, and I'll be the little b***h you see in Wal-Mart with 5 or 6 kids in tow.
I disarge with both, he is good for something, at least a friend, he won't be a druggie, I'll make sure of that, and he amounts to alot. If someone can regonize the talent he has, he'd be set. That boy can pick up anything and play it. And I'm not a little goody two shoes, he knows that, if I act like I'm better than him why would I constatnly be asking about him, or going down to see him, because, I like him more than words can say. We have lunch at the same time so we're supposed to meet each other today during lunch. Hope that goes ok.

just goes to show how much faith some people have in humanity  

[Optical Illision]

Meeting at lunch didn't happen. Thy made us stay inside. And to top it off, no one's seen him for two days now.  

[Optical Illision]

I could really use some help. He tried to kill himself, and I was close but I couldn't do anything. I feel so ******** useless. My little brother was with me, but he couldn't see him. What do I do? I can't talk to him, he walks off with this hurt look. Worse than he looked last night. I don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone. Someone told one of his teachers and his stepdad tried to 'beat it out of him'. I feel so useless. Please if you have any ideas on what I can do, can you tell me? I need them.  

[lordstar]

Optical Illision

I could really use some help. He tried to kill himself, and I was close but I couldn't do anything. I feel so ******** useless. My little brother was with me, but he couldn't see him. What do I do? I can't talk to him, he walks off with this hurt look. Worse than he looked last night. I don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone. Someone told one of his teachers and his stepdad tried to 'beat it out of him'. I feel so useless. Please if you have any ideas on what I can do, can you tell me? I need them.

CPS
we have gone from silly to crazy and now to CPS

"beat it out of him" sounds to me like not good times  

[Optical Illision]

Having anything 'beat out of you' isn't good times, at least by my standarts. He was at school yesterday which is good, because it's 7 1/2 hrs he can't majorly harm himself.