Bad Christian?

[Shymia]

Alright here is the run down of what has been happening so far. I broke up with my boyfriend of five years because I didn't want to be with him anymore. He tried to kill himself supposedly for me but he only wanted to get attention. he wanted a second chance with me so i went back with him only to dump again because I didn't think it was right...

Am I a bad christian for doing this? Should I have given him the second chance even if it wasn't in my heart at all and the only reason why I went back was out of pity?  

[MISERY in pure bliss]

NOBODY is a bad Christian!! If it wasn't in your heart to be with him again then there was no reason for you to deceive him...He might think that you really do still want to be with him, because you went back with him, only to be dumped by you again. I think you're doing the right thing by not being with him--it would be just like lying to him...You're a strong girl- you'll figure this out!! In the meantime, I'll be praying for you...  

[kim ocean]

He's the one emotionally blackmailing you. I'd take that as a serious warning sign and just walk away. You deserve somone who doesn't take advantage of your kind heart.  

[Shymia]

Thank you both for your feedback on this topic. I may have more later on but thank you both. I feel better now that I know that I did the right thing after all.

As for the blackmailing part, I can see how that is since he also wanted me to come back to him in order to get things back that he took from me.... in a way i did that and got them back but he didn't have to do that you know... I just strongely hope that he doesn't quit his life over this because that in itself is rather selfish on his part.. i mean if he can't have me then he may as well kill himself...stupid concept but yeah.  

[LittlePinky82]

No. You're not. You need to take care of yourself too. I don't think God would want you to be with someone you don't belong with.  

[LittlePinky82]

No. You're not. You need to take care of yourself too. I don't think God would want you to be with someone you don't belong with. I think you did what you thought was right. I hope the guy is okay though.  

[reddy4nething]

no...ure not a bad Christian bcuz u dumped ur boyfriend....God knows that u dont like him nemore and its probly in his plans..."all things work together for good to them that love God."hes probly got a better man 4 u newayz  

[onecoolc]

Before you do anything, anser this question:

Do you Love Him?

Dont anser right away, think about it and pray on it. If you do love him, your heart will do the rest, however if you dont, I give you this advice:

Get out, get away, and get on with your life.

No reson to let your old life sink you down, Onward and Upward!