So, Polygamy

[Exhaustedapostate]

I'm currently in an open relationship with a girl named Kathleen[katie]. It seems to be working out pretty well from what I can tell. gaia_diamond  

[XrosHeartless]

In a way it's the only kind of relationship I can really do. I I'm terrible at normal relationships and I hate being tied down, it kinda ruins most of my previous relationships.  

[Karmerruk]

Personally I find polygamy to be wrong and selfish. Inb4 someone gets butthurt, remember this is only my opinion about it. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, or you don't have the right to it. The reason why I find it selfish is that you can't control your urges or feelings enough to keep them to just one person. You have to have your cake and eat it to, and in my personal view that's an immature attitude to have. Again, that's just my view on it.  

[SilentVex]

I've been in a poly relationship. It was fun and enjoyable, and my primary girlfriend was entirely ok with it (seeing as she had a second BF besides me). Eventually she said she couldn't date two people anymore and broke up with the other guy. She asked me to do the same for her and I did.

Still though, sometimes I do want to talk to her about the two of us being in a poly relationship again. I don't because I know she wants just me, but that's fine. ^^ Still, wanted my two cents. Poly works if one right.  

[Blackrose_Knight]

xXSebastian RoseXx

Personally I find polygamy to be wrong and selfish. Inb4 someone gets butthurt, remember this is only my opinion about it. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, or you don't have the right to it. The reason why I find it selfish is that you can't control your urges or feelings enough to keep them to just one person. You have to have your cake and eat it to, and in my personal view that's an immature attitude to have. Again, that's just my view on it.

Sounds more like you jelly.

In all seriousness though, why even post this? Its degrading and hurtful, this is a support guild. Dufuq?  

[Karmerruk]

Blackrose_Knight

xXSebastian RoseXx

Personally I find polygamy to be wrong and selfish. Inb4 someone gets butthurt, remember this is only my opinion about it. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, or you don't have the right to it. The reason why I find it selfish is that you can't control your urges or feelings enough to keep them to just one person. You have to have your cake and eat it to, and in my personal view that's an immature attitude to have. Again, that's just my view on it.

Sounds more like you jelly.

In all seriousness though, why even post this? Its degrading and hurtful, this is a support guild. Dufuq?

Jelly of what exactly? No, I am completely happy with my one boyfriend, I don't need more than that. Because our opinions were asked so I gave mine.  

[Pia Austin]

As long as people are consenting adults people can have whatever relationships they want. END OF STORY. Comparing this to free love or loving little children or marrying animals is wrong and demonstrates ignorance and intolerance. I know I'm preaching to the choir here but keep in mind if you support gay marriage you theoretically support polygamous ones as well at least in regards to civil law  

[Blackrose_Knight]

xXSebastian RoseXx

Blackrose_Knight

xXSebastian RoseXx

Personally I find polygamy to be wrong and selfish. Inb4 someone gets butthurt, remember this is only my opinion about it. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, or you don't have the right to it. The reason why I find it selfish is that you can't control your urges or feelings enough to keep them to just one person. You have to have your cake and eat it to, and in my personal view that's an immature attitude to have. Again, that's just my view on it.

Sounds more like you jelly.

In all seriousness though, why even post this? Its degrading and hurtful, this is a support guild. Dufuq?

Jelly of what exactly? No, I am completely happy with my one boyfriend, I don't need more than that. Because our opinions were asked so I gave mine.

In my anecdotal experience when someone uses the phrase "Gets their cake and eats it too" to me says "Well, ******** those guys, they did what I cannot." or something similar. Thus, why I think you are jelly.

Or perhaps, you are stuck in concrete thinking. Was your post only meant to be applied to your lifestyle?

What praytell is wrong with attaining cake, and then eating it? Why that use of phrase, as my experience is anecdotal.  

[Shanna66]

Blackrose_Knight

xXSebastian RoseXx

Blackrose_Knight

xXSebastian RoseXx

Personally I find polygamy to be wrong and selfish. Inb4 someone gets butthurt, remember this is only my opinion about it. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, or you don't have the right to it. The reason why I find it selfish is that you can't control your urges or feelings enough to keep them to just one person. You have to have your cake and eat it to, and in my personal view that's an immature attitude to have. Again, that's just my view on it.

Sounds more like you jelly.

In all seriousness though, why even post this? Its degrading and hurtful, this is a support guild. Dufuq?

Jelly of what exactly? No, I am completely happy with my one boyfriend, I don't need more than that. Because our opinions were asked so I gave mine.

In my anecdotal experience when someone uses the phrase "Gets their cake and eats it too" to me says "Well, ******** those guys, they did what I cannot." or something similar. Thus, why I think you are jelly.

Or perhaps, you are stuck in concrete thinking. Was your post only meant to be applied to your lifestyle?

What praytell is wrong with attaining cake, and then eating it? Why that use of phrase, as my experience is anecdotal.

ive always hated that phrase  

[Oh Asobi]

i've always wanted to try one.
Eveytime i get with someone though they are never open to it ....  

[The Girl Prince]

While I admire polyamory, I know I'm not capable of it. It's really great when a group of people can come together and make it work!
I know I'd get jealous or too clingy to one person and anyone else would be pushed to a lower priority. Sorry to say it that way, makes me sound like a total jerk. sweatdrop  

[Blackrose_Knight]

Shanna66

ive always hated that phrase

Same. I am all "well, if I went all this way to attain cake you bet your a** I am gonna eat it."  

[Shanna66]

Blackrose_Knight

Shanna66

ive always hated that phrase

Same. I am all "well, if I went all this way to attain cake you bet your a** I am gonna eat it."

yup, not much point in having cake if you cant eat it lol  

[humble_gypsy_traveller]

The Girl Prince

While I admire polyamory, I know I'm not capable of it. It's really great when a group of people can come together and make it work!
I know I'd get jealous or too clingy to one person and anyone else would be pushed to a lower priority. Sorry to say it that way, makes me sound like a total jerk. sweatdrop

That's a misconception. No person in a polyigamous relationship is greater then the other. It's like any other relationship...it's all about equality. The thing I love about it is that it pushes the limits on open-ness in a relationship. Personally, I find that many monogamous relationships have a small area of trust. By that, I mean that, being the carnal beings we are, there is a wide window to lead to cheating. In a polygamous relationship, there really isn't any fear of admitting "I like such and such, and I want to sleep with them*. You can communicate that with your partner(s) and know that, in most cases your partner(s) would approve. Again, I say this isn't for everybody...because some actually do have the ability to stay with one person, and are fine with one person. The thing I'm attracted to polygamy about is that, partners are free to come and go as they please. The other misconception about polygamy is it's all about sexual behavior; about big orgies, about sex parties...that's not always true. I mean, there are some out there that are all about the physical rub and tug...but a lot of it is about emotional connection.  

[humble_gypsy_traveller]

Oh Asobi

i've always wanted to try one.
Eveytime i get with someone though they are never open to it ....

It takes a lot of thought though. What do you really want out of it...that's what you should always consider.