Sudden attraction?

[Hashtagihateit]

Am I the only one who suddenly is extremely attracted to a person that you've never been attracted to before in your life.

I mean, though I wasn't super great friends with him, I've known him for a good 15 years, through school and whatever,

and then I saw him on campus last week and I suddenly wanted to drag him into the bathroom and S his D instead of going to class.



Does anybody else deal with this?
Totally arbitrary attraction to someone out of no where?


I'm the only one? Okay.  

[AKeikoB]

No, no, I totally feel you!
I'm a girl and I like girls, so I sometimes feel that attraction to girls.
I also figured I was one of the few who thought that way too. emo  

[Hashtagihateit]

No, not in general. I'm clearly homosex, and I'm always attracted to boys.

I'm talking about a specific boy in question,
with whom I've gone to school with and never found attractive until just recently.  

[MadPad]

I haven't yet felt that way for anyone I know personally, but I believe I can relate to what you are talking about.
I think it is not a thing exclusive to homosexuals, I experienced that most persons may have a sudden unexplainable 'crush' on someone.
It is also possible that you learned to appreciate something about him that you weren't aware of before.
Or you were just a little horny, happens to me permanently. lol  

[Hashtagihateit]

MadPad

I haven't yet felt that way for anyone I know personally, but I believe I can relate to what you are talking about.
I think it is not a thing exclusive to homosexuals, I experienced that most persons may have a sudden unexplainable 'crush' on someone.
It is also possible that you learned to appreciate something about him that you weren't aware of before.
Or you were just a little horny, happens to me permanently. lol

Well, usually I become attracted to someone different then I normally would it's because I'm horny

but I'm still attracted to this man-boy after relieving myself,

I just wish he was not so hetero.  

[MadPad]

Hashtagihateit

Well, usually I become attracted to someone different then I normally would it's because I'm horny

but I'm still attracted to this man-boy after relieving myself,

I just wish he was not so hetero.

Is it just a sexual attraction you feel or is there anything else involved?  

[Hashtagihateit]

MadPad

Hashtagihateit

Well, usually I become attracted to someone different then I normally would it's because I'm horny

but I'm still attracted to this man-boy after relieving myself,

I just wish he was not so hetero.

Is it just a sexual attraction you feel or is there anything else involved?

It's likely purely sexual,
I haven't had a legitimate conversation with him in years.

Just nodding in passing and whatever.  

[MadPad]

Hashtagihateit

It's likely purely sexual,
I haven't had a legitimate conversation with him in years.

Just nodding in passing and whatever.

Sounds like nothing problematic to me.
You've come to realize that you are attracted to his body/appearance,
maybe you haven't paid that much attention to it before,
because 'suddenly' something changed about him (you know him for 15 years, I'm sure his body matured a lot during that time).
Maybe he has been working out, who knows?
It may be even possible that you developed a preference for his type of build.

What I want to express is that what you feel doesn't seem abnormal to me.  

[Raeiko]

Ive had that with a friend of mine we were friends since kids than out of no-where, boom!  

[Pia Austin]

MadPad

I haven't yet felt that way for anyone I know personally, but I believe I can relate to what you are talking about.
I think it is not a thing exclusive to homosexuals, I experienced that most persons may have a sudden unexplainable 'crush' on someone.
It is also possible that you learned to appreciate something about him that you weren't aware of before.
Or you were just a little horny, happens to me permanently. lol

Totally can relate in highschool I was suddenly attracted to one of my friends, it was like one day "wow I find you incredibly sexy." I feel bad thinking on it now because boy has karma back on me big time with people coming up to me and wanting to get in my pants...  

[Chris ex Machina]

I can relate. Both guys and girls have done that to me over the years.' I call them physical crushes. Don't hold me too it, but I think's it's like how our minds develop a crush, except our bodies developing one. Hormones and all that junk I don't understand well, maybe.  

[Koinu-tan]

It's normal. It's just your hormones going wacky and making you horny. My "straight" friends deal with it too.  

[Anja Sedai]

Yeah, definitely had that happen before. D:

I was on the bus back from a band trip in high school. It had been a long day and a friend of mine was sleeping in the next seat and all of a sudden she just looked so damn cute that I wanted her right there. She is really straight (she's married now) and I hadn't been attracted to her at all before then. Or really after for that matter. Had a similar thing happen with my best friend's girlfriend in college as well. Who I roomed with. So that one was a bit awkward.  

[DarkDaisuke9]

Ive had this happen to me before with total strangers and close friends. Its not too common nor rare, but it can come up on you from behind (No joke intended).  

[Lifty_Raccoon]

It's not that odd. I know how you feel.