Orgasming

[Neuneu]

My toes go numb when this happens. Not sure if that is a natural thing or not. I do make some noise, but not like, OHHHHHHHHHH GOD BABY YES MMMM YES.

Also, not every time I have sex I orgasm, its only occasionally. Does any of your body parts freak out? Do you moo when you do? I really would just like to know. I feel sorta abnormal when my legs just stop working and I awkwardly walk to the bathroom or something afterward.

Why am I thinking about sex on Christmas? neutral  

[paper giraffes]

My legs shake uncontrollably and it's like I'm having a seizure. The first time my boyfriend saw he was like OH GOD ARE YOU OKAY.

But aside from that, I make some noise and when I try to walk around after my legs are like NOPE.jpg  

[breedney]

i screech at the top of my lungs and flail my arms violently.

no but really
uhh idk i know there's a lot of moaning and my back arches but that's about it. i'm a little spaced out after too it's funny.  

[Keito-san]

With other people, I forget. Alone, I can be completely silent. Stealth orgasm.  

[Vitamin Crack]

My legs shake, so I tend to pull them up, and I think my back arches. Everything feels really warm down there and it kind of radiates (the further it goes, the better it feels). For me it feels like a tension relief so I tend to sigh, moan and pant more than scream or anything like that. And yeah, my legs don't work afterwards. I've tried to get up just after and just fallen out of bed comically.

Also I orgasm at least once every time we have sex (admittedly not from penetration)...I didn't realise how lucky I was because it doesn't seem like many girls do?  

[Xiporah]

Sometimes I make noise. I've gotten VERY good at remaining dead silent though since many of my previous boyfriends lived with their parents.

I've noticed recently after I had all the troubles I was having last year, now the intensity of the orgasms has dropped significantly. Sometimes they're very disappointing.

I ONLY orgasm from oral sex or having my c**t rubbed now. I don't even comprehend how it's possible to have an intercourse orgasm. Nothing rubs or touches anything the right way for it to be possible in my brain.

Sometimes the orgasm will just ******** disappear. SO CLOSE SO CLOSE SOCLOOOO-gone.

The whole process is mentally exhausting. I don't like having sex every day. It requires so much effort.

I miss when my legs used to shake. They still twitch sometimes, but not much.

I miss my old body in general. All sensitivity has just gone down hill since I've gotten older, and my interest in it is waning. Keeping up with Brandon is very hard. I also need to have a talk with him about asking me to talk dirty. I'm happy doing it for his pleasure, but doing it for mine is completely counter productive and a sure fire way to make me lose my orgasm. I can't focus on both at the same time, and I don't like it. I can't sit there and try and figure out what non stupid s**t sounding porn cliche to say AND try and have an orgasm too. That's not how it works.

Quite frankly, I don't even understand why he's with me.

 

[Sini X]

I get this tingly feeling all over my body, especially hands, face and feet, and when I come it kind of releases all at once, my hands and feet go numb-ish and it's hard for me to bend my fingers. I sometimes giggle if it's a really good one. And I get all light-headed and kissy. Walking is a bit wobbly, but I'm not the type to jump off from the bed first thing after sex.

I can't come without clitoral stimulation either, but I have to say that the orgasms I give myself aren't as intense as the ones someone else gives me.


yum_cupcake  

[LeRaven]

I've never had an orgasm from sex but one from clitoris action, ye ye.
With myself I'm silent, with a partner I cannot for the life of me keep quiet. If there's other people around I just try and stuff my wrist in my mouth to stifle the noise xD


I dunno I guess it's sort of like this big shiver that goes through my body and with little aftermath shivers. My legs generally don't work from being in crazy positions versus being weak cause of an orgasm.  

[Arianah]

c**t orgasms, yes. I tend to struggle having one if there is not contact made there, but even while having intercourse I can seem to accomplish that. Actually, having my feet rubbed does it too. Breast play used to until my breast reductions, now there isn't much sensation there, but he enjoys them so w/e.

What they feel like? Um...it's an all over body experience that starts in my groin and spreads through my belly, legs, torso and head. It's warm, but not. I am a quiet orgasmer though. Living w/ parents...ugh. The idea that the people in the hotel room next tous could hear me...ugh. Kids...no way. I don't want to answer questions. LOL  

[noramine]

Xiporah

Sometimes the orgasm will just ******** disappear. SO CLOSE SO CLOSE SOCLOOOO-gone.

This happens to me a lot. Moreso in the past when I was hung up on how I looked during, or how loud we were as the bed banged into a wall, etc. But in the last few years I've been able to focus better.

My leg can get a really bad cramp near the end, which I have sometimes lost an orgasm to because I couldn't straighten it in time to relax it and the pain took over.

Sometimes they're just weak but there, and it's like "thank god I got to the end" and sometimes they're really good and I just get giggly and relaxed for a bit afterwards. When I don't I usually get really frustrated because I don't get interested in sex often enough so when I am it's like I really need it, you know.

It's usually really hard for me to get wet too, I have to work to get there and keep it there. It's always been that way. I'm sure my birth control affects that as well, though. I'll go through horny periods where I'm turned on very easily but generally it takes a lot to get me going.

What turns me on changes every time. Sometimes I want my a** grabbed, sometimes I want my nipples bit. Sometimes if you try that I'll instantly get mad and it's painful. Usually me on top with some but not too much c**t stim does the trick, but too much pre-stimulation down there can actually keep me from having an orgasm later. Also usually d**k suckin turns me on and gets me wet, though I mentally get sick of it and my jaw issues make it painful to go for very long. (good for da boy though) I like long slow teasing strokes though, and I like it slightly rough.

Xip- have you looked into "rejuvenation" surgeries? I don't know how costly/effective they are or anything but the idea sprung to mind. I feel like I've asked you about doing kegels before but I don't recall the conversation.  

[breedney]

LeRaven

With myself I'm silent, with a partner I cannot for the life of me keep quiet.

RIGHT  

[Xiporah]

noramine

Xiporah

Sometimes the orgasm will just ******** disappear. SO CLOSE SO CLOSE SOCLOOOO-gone.

Xip- have you looked into "rejuvenation" surgeries? I don't know how costly/effective they are or anything but the idea sprung to mind. I feel like I've asked you about doing kegels before but I don't recall the conversation.

I have, as well as looking into other body shaping surgeries. All the surgical procedures I want (including rejuvination) are over 5K a pop. I'd love to have one. My vulva is wrinkly and not very pretty anymore.

Pretty much since I've gotten older, all I've done is look up the cost of various surgeries to fix my body. My clitoral hood completely encases my entire c**t no matter what state of arousal I am in. I'm finally ok with that.

I always forget to do kiegals. I always promise myself to do them (they're hard to do for me.) Maybe I should do them on the bus or something.

 

[Arianah]

Xippy, just get this and then you'll have to simply make time to do your kegels. Gyneflex is the 30 something woman's best friend.  

[Xiporah]

Annnnd I may just buy that.

LeRaven also showed me some other stuff that I was thinking of buying, because I kinda do have weak peepee pelvic muscles. Sometimes I pee a little if I cough or laugh too hard. 90% of the time, when that happens, I have no clue that I have to pee.

 

[Arianah]

I have the opposite problem and my pelvic muscles clamp down making me have to force my pee out. Might be why sex hurt like a mo fo for all those years when I first got married. LOL