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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 10:46 am
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I haven't been posting much on Gaia or I would've put this up sooner... but I went to this cute presentation by a friend of mine last Wednesday on stupid Pagans. Or rather, Pagans not using their brains and doing some really silly things during rituals. Like trying to set up a maypole indoors in a basement when the maypole is too long... only to have it crash on someone's head (who happened to be the photographer who was doing a media report on the event). One thing braught up at this activity was Pagan Manners. For those out there in the community, it becomes an important thing to consider. Here's a paraphrased list from the handout we got at this meeting of things that you should be careful of (see bottom for inspiration credits). Please feel free to comment on these or add to them!
1) Never assume that just because you are invited to a non-public ritual that your friend is too. ASK!
2) When participating in a ritual lead by a group which you're not a member, ASK them what will be done instead of assuming. Ask if you need to bring anything ro dress in a certain way. If something about it bothers you, quietly do not participate.
3) Never just walk out of a cast circle! If you must leave, have someone cut you a door.
4) Don't comment about the ritual, its leaders, or its quality unless asked. Save it for after the ritual is over and privately; don't be a spreader of gossip.
5) Be sure to consider deitary needs: if you're vegetarian or will be hosting vegetarians, make sure to plan dishes to meet those needs.
6) It is never, EVER permissible to 'blow someone's cover' by talking about someone's membership in a Pagan group. While some people are out of the broom closet, some people prefer their secrecy.
7) If you drink or take drugs personally, it is your own personal buisiness. Do not urge others to do so at gatherings.
cool Just because most Pagans are under 40 and mobile, not all of them are. Have rituals take place, where public, in accesible areas with plenty of places to sit down.
9) Be mindful of those around your ritual area who aren't Pagan, especially at night hours. Keep noise levels low at such times and be polite.
10) Do not allow yourself to get the idea that you know the One True, Right and Only Path! If you don't like it, don't do it... it is not acceptable to say someone 'shouldn't be doing things a certain way (exception being if it is against the law).
11) If you can't stand the slightest deviation from your own tradition, don't take part in cross-cultural rituals or gatherings.
12) Stop all the silliness about who is and who is not a Witch/Wiccan/Pagan and what one must do to be one. Be respectful of other's differences at gatherings.
13) Add a dose of good humor!
Source Credits: -- "Pagan Manners -or- Are There Any Dead Animals in The Soup?" by Grey Cat -- "Pagan/Craft Etiquette" by Soapbox Sam with additional ideas fromMerlin the Enchanter and Beket Aser Edithsdatter
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 4:14 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 4:45 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 4:58 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 5:41 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 8:20 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 9:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 9:24 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 10:01 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 10:49 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 8:24 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 12:33 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 11:03 pm
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 8:10 am
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 7:22 am
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