Estrella Espacio
So I'm putting this here and I get yelled at for it, so be it.
Please dont:
Quote me, makes jokes at me (whether its my character or myself)
be upset if i stop talking or separate myself (i like to lurk but if i post something depressing its because i dont have anyone to vent to and i need to yell it out or i'll get an anxiety attack)
or ask why i deleted a post
-basically i'm saying im a downer and i'll screw up trying to speak up, mostly because i've been kicked out for ignoring someones insult at me/sticking up for myself-
Please dont:
Quote me, makes jokes at me (whether its my character or myself)
be upset if i stop talking or separate myself (i like to lurk but if i post something depressing its because i dont have anyone to vent to and i need to yell it out or i'll get an anxiety attack)
or ask why i deleted a post
-basically i'm saying im a downer and i'll screw up trying to speak up, mostly because i've been kicked out for ignoring someones insult at me/sticking up for myself-
You may not want to be quoted, but I'd like to make this clear: Harry is not making jokes at you. He's quoting "Space Oddity", a David Bowie song, in reference to you 'blasting off' from the rp for a while. There's no malicious intent there. I've known Harry for going on 8 years now and he doesn't have a malicious bone in his body.
You're not going to be kicked out of this guild. The circumstances that cause removal of someone from this guild are incredibly extreme and would involve you actively harassing other people - something I know you would never do.
The tone in this guild involves OOC feedback. People may ask you why you did an action out of curiousity. Reading any response to you as an attack is unwarranted, and that's something that you and only you have any control over.
Something needs to be clarified here. If you post something, that means you wanted people to see it. You had to have something on screen posted, put out for others to read.
If you want everyone to ignore things you post, you have to not post them.
If you want people to NOT REACT to things you post, except in specific circumstances, it will have to be on you to be clear about what those circumstances are. Posts in tiny struck out text are not an effective way to communicate with everyone here. That's a passive-aggressive method that is far too easy to be misinterpreted. Please do not continue doing that here.
Given the number of different people here with different personalities and experiences, you have to exhibit a modicum of understanding towards others and how they post while expecting them to do the same.
You are an extremely well-liked, highly valued member of our rp that everyone here looks forward to seeing post. Essi is a fascinating character you've put a lot of effort into making an interesting part of the MH world. I love seeing her show up. I hope that you can take what I've said here into consideration going forward.
