so confused...

[Kira Kahli]

So I'm a sophmore in high school and i know that I'm young and that it doesn't matter whether i have a bf or not right now.
But, there's this one guy who i have a kind of soft spot for, like i try not to like him but whenever I'm around him I really just can't help it. I don't know what's wrong with me because he's not like the best guy in the world but to me it really seems like he is.
I've liked him since 6th grade and just no other guy can even compare to him, i feel kind of crazy.
My problem is that he likes my best friend (who's kind of a heartbreaker), but he's never considered giving me a chance.
I might have had one awesome moment with him at a school dance but other than that it seems like he's never thought of me as anything but a friend.
Sometimes it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, even though there probably isn't (or i hope not at least sweatdrop )
I just wish he'd give me just one chance.
Any advice??? ( and sorry about writing so much, i guess there's just a lot on my mind)  

[Wildstar22]

Kira Kahli

So I'm a sophmore in high school and i know that I'm young and that it doesn't matter whether i have a bf or not right now.
But, there's this one guy who i have a kind of soft spot for, like i try not to like him but whenever I'm around him I really just can't help it. I don't know what's wrong with me because he's not like the best guy in the world but to me it really seems like he is.
I've liked him since 6th grade and just no other guy can even compare to him, i feel kind of crazy.
My problem is that he likes my best friend (who's kind of a heartbreaker), but he's never considered giving me a chance.
I might have had one awesome moment with him at a school dance but other than that it seems like he's never thought of me as anything but a friend.
Sometimes it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, even though there probably isn't (or i hope not at least sweatdrop )
I just wish he'd give me just one chance.
Any advice??? ( and sorry about writing so much, i guess there's just a lot on my mind)

Why does everyone think that there is something wrong with them?
There isn't anything wrong with you believe me a lot of people go through this.
Have you tried to get his attention? Most guys are oblivious so you may need to be blunt. Trust me I was completely oblivious to the fact that my crush actually liked me. Ahem, moving on!!!
Talk to your best friend (if you haven't already) about you liking the guy. You don't want any tension between you two because honestly friendship is more important. Unless the friend is being a potato.
You gotta get him to see you for you as well.
You didn't write all that much compared to some of the other texts I've seen but even if you had it would be ok because it is how you get people to understand a little more. More writing means better understanding (at times) which means better help.
Talk to him about your feelings. I know it isn't that simple but maybe if you text it to him or write it on a note and hand it to him though you need to be there to see his reaction or else it could go astray.
Take the initiative to get him see that he needs to give you a chance.
I hope this has helped. If it hasn't then I am terribly sorry and you have my permission to call me a potato. Among other things.
Keep me posted on the results.