congrats. im not gunna have another baby for a couple of years. i decided this when i learned my mother in law is a control freak, she treats me like a bad mom. and my husband is no help. i hate living with her. i really do. i cant bath my kid without her watching me and shouting orders. i cant feed him rice cereal without her watching and trying to take over. she has to watch me do everything. i tried to lock the door to my room but it caused an argument between me and my husband. and he never supports me in anything. its putting a huge strain on my marriage.he dont want alex to sleep in his crib, hes almost 5 months old, way too big for a bassinet. his mom had a fit when me and my dad set up the crib in my room. i dont know how many times i told my hubs im the mother not her! respect that! he dont. ive already tossed my wedding ring at him twice after huge arguments. its out of control.
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Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 8:43 pm
I'm sorry, I'm going though anytime sickness. It's wrecked my housekeeping which has seriously stressed out my hubby. (No clean underwear makes him pretty cranky... especially added to being so financially strapped... and no dinner on the table for him, and no lunch when we run out of bread, and the horrible state the kitchen is in...) So I only have bad advice left to give along with my many and prolonged bouts of nausea...
If life is so awful with your Hubby and his parents you may have to see about moving back in with your own parents until his either move out or you divorce. If he wants you and baby so bad, have him move in with your family and let him see how it feels to be constantly judged. evil
Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 6:36 pm
i would make him live with my mom and her 3rd hubs if i was still talking to my mom. but im not. so oh well, im thinking of moving to my grandmas with my baby untill he moves his parents out. i cant find a job right now but im sure eventually i will find one. my hubs is a bossy jerk. his parents are nosy annoying control freaks. my hubs dont want to comromise on anythingm, he never wants to listen when i try to talk to him. and of course im only really paid attention to when he wants to get lucky in bed. and i tell him no, if hes gunna be a jerk, he dont get my goodies. which makes him even more mad.
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