Thanks for the advice, guys heart
Crewing with strangers makes me really, really uncomfortable, which makes the game unfun to play, lol. So I'll probably just keep slogging along solo. I've just recently learned the wonders of Hot Foot, lol, I need to get away from leaning on my Solar Rays ring all the time... and there actually were one or two Barton quests that I missed! So that will help a little bit.
Rissa -- do you know of anyplace to get a Fitness ring in-game at my current position, or am I better off buying one in the MP? If I remember right, I asked Leon for one after completing that series of quests, but the game gave me Hornet's Nest instead :/
Valheita -- I have yet to walk in that direction without getting killed within the first couple screens. It's not even that the monsters are super-awful or anything, it's just the lag. It often gets me on the Village Greens too; I'll walk onto a screen that looks empty and a few moments later suddenly find myself dead. Or else I'll walk onto a screen with a ton of enemies and the lag will keep me from moving/attacking and I'll find myself dead. gonk