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I am here to discuss my girlfriend Rebecca Christian's mom, Donna Roman. She is controlling, abusive, and protective. Now that it is the weekend I really miss Becca and her mom is such a b***h that I can't see her, call her, or even write her. I am starting to build so much anger now that I am going to break her rules. That is the thing though. If her parents catch me I am dead and so is she. Also, her mom is such a royale c**t-bag that she hits/hurts her for little things. Why would you have kids if you are not going to enjoy them? Every morning she gets called names and is yelled at for little things like not making her coffee strong enough. What should I do Gaians? I want to get out to her mother, and I would like to see her now and then on the weekends and s**t?

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Social services.

As for the poll, None of the above.

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Social services.


It is not that severe though.

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You need to get her help right-away. Contact social services and explain to them what you have just told us. She does not deserve to be abused as she is right now, and you need to take action in order to protect her. Act now. She needs your help. And good luck to you.

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she hits her, beats, and abuses her


Then don't make it seem that way. Just tell her the truth and tell her to ******** off. There's no point in hiding things from the person you hate.

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You need to get her help right-away. Contact social services and explain to them what you have just told us. She does not deserve to be abused as she is right now, and you need to take action in order to protect her. Act now. She needs your help. And good luck to you.


Like I said to atheism it is not that bad.

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Social services.


It is not that severe though.
Only torture is severe enough. Let her suffer as she made her daughter suffer. But we can't do that these days. So social services should do.

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she hits her, beats, and abuses her


Then don't make it seem that way. Just tell her the truth and tell her to ******** off. There's no point in hiding things from the person you hate.


That is helpful. Really. I changed it now. I did make it seem that way. Thank you.

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Social Services would go to far. There is no sign of bruising and it isn't abuse it is severe anger issues. I just don't know what to do when she is screeming at you. I need the help at that point.

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she hits her, beats, and abuses her


Then don't make it seem that way. Just tell her the truth and tell her to ******** off. There's no point in hiding things from the person you hate.


That is helpful. Really. I changed it now. I did make it seem that way. Thank you.


No problem. Just kind of confusing...

If you really want a succesful relationship, you should tell the mother the truth, that there's nothing she can do about it. This should infuriate the woman enough, even though this may cause you, your girlfriend or both of you bodily harm, it'll give an better reason to call Social Services.

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You need to get her help right-away. Contact social services and explain to them what you have just told us. She does not deserve to be abused as she is right now, and you need to take action in order to protect her. Act now. She needs your help. And good luck to you.


Like I said to atheism it is not that bad.


Don't let it get worse then. If her mother knows that people have been contacted, then she will have to be very careful about what she does from then-on, or else risk prosecution for abuse. Don't let your girlfriend get hurt, and make your opinion known.

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You need to get her help right-away. Contact social services and explain to them what you have just told us. She does not deserve to be abused as she is right now, and you need to take action in order to protect her. Act now. She needs your help. And good luck to you.


Like I said to atheism it is not that bad.


Don't let it get worse then. If her mother knows that people have been contacted, then she will have to be very careful about what she does from then-on, or else risk prosecution for abuse. Don't her your girlfriend get hurt, and make your opinion known.


I never thought about that. I will keep that in mind.

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Social Services would go to far. There is no sign of bruising and it isn't abuse it is severe anger issues. I just don't know what to do when she is screeming at you. I need the help at that point.


Unecessary screaming is still abuse. It could have some verynegative effects upon your girlfriend if her mother does not stop what she is doing to her now.

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Social Services would go to far. There is no sign of bruising and it isn't abuse it is severe anger issues. I just don't know what to do when she is screeming at you. I need the help at that point.


Unecessary screaming is still abuse. It could have some verynegative effects upon your girlfriend if her mother does not stop what she is doing to her now.

True.

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