Welcome to Gaia! ::

I'm taking that your chastity means a lot to you, and sorry to be brutally honest but it really was wasted. Then I'll tell you now, before you get into any relationship be more wary of people, there is nothing wrong with also protecting yourself you are a girl after all. And do not trust anyone so easily, especially if he asks for it. Don't just give in no matter the persuasion. Six months dating is not enough to really get to know someone, it takes years, that's why some married people would even go for divorce.

A proper man will never ask you for it, even if you offer he still ought to refuse which will show his dedication and loyalty to you that even without any act of copulation he is still willing to be with you. A man who cannot endure his sex drive is nothing but a hormonal idiot. Remember that sex is not the way to treasure someone, when you are only dating having sex cannot be justified by a reason such as "to express your love for your partner", then that "love" must be really weak and superficial that you can only express it through sex, when there are plenty of ways to do it. I would never ask a girl for sex, not because I do not want her but because I am willing to wait even if it takes years, until we are ready to take that love that we have and turn it into a baby. Relationships like that are something people would call old fashioned, but you know, a relationship built on substance lasts. A relationship built on attraction or sex is bound to hurt you someday. You know the greatest gift you could have given your future husband would have been your chastity and a fruit made from your love with him--a baby. And since it was already gone, you ought not to waste yourself on half-assed men anymore, a woman with less experience is more valuable to true men than you think.