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Imagine the worst thing you've ever gone through,

okay now imagine that you are having a conversation with someone whom you are unaware has gone through the same thing, only worse,

picture your conversation ended up you yelling and fiercely arguing with that person over that topic, only because they were trying to positively encourage you to "let it go" (no song references here) and you thought they didn't understand you.

the only reason they are being positive is because they don't want you to hurt like them.

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next time you argue with their positivity, make sure that you know that they don't know what you are going through. In fact, it be best to assume the best before the worst, then you will feel your best.

Legitimately, no one will be able to insult you because you keep taking their insults in a positive light. Omg! The frustration you'd cause them. How's that for awesome-sauce! 3nodding

What's your thought? X3 I'm interested to know! X3

really? XD I've ran into it a couple of times, and it is seriously annoying.

I'm there trying to tell them that I understand because I've had something similar, but then they refuse to believe me and everything I try to tell them either doesn't get through or is misunderstood. XD

It's really sad, yeah?

Oh! Yeah! I knew I spelled it wrong! XD I was in a rush so yeah.

Thank you for pointing it out to me though! X3

I know right! Have you ever had someone blame what ever their feeling on you for trying to empathize with them??

Yeah, I know right. I get that so often. It's definitely irritating. XD

Amen to that sister! XD Well as long as we have one person who understands, it makes it better am I right?