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Post: 94079007_1 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:55:10 +0000
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I got my period though
thank God
i'm not ready for a kid financially or healthwise. At all.
With the meds I'm on, I'd have a child with likely fatal birth defects, if it wouldn't be a miscarriage or stillborn. And would likely land me in the hospital. So I'd pretty much have to get an abortion. At least at this point in my life.

And as much as I understand and agree that sometimes an abortion is necessary, I STILL 100% believe that it's ending a potential life and is a horrible thing to have to do. And should be avoided at all costs.

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Post: 94079007_3 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:56:31 +0000
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I was pro choice before
But idk anymore

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Post: 94079007_4 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:56:43 +0000
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no what are you doing are you trying to start a debate this thread will blow up with other people's opinions if you do that gonk

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Post: 94079007_5 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:57:25 +0000
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Post: 94079007_6 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:57:25 +0000
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I haven't had a scare before.
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Post: 94079007_7 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:57:52 +0000
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I am glad things worked out. I am pro-choice in the general sense, but I don't know if I could go through with it personally, even if my life was at risk.

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Post: 94079007_8 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:58:59 +0000
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I was pro choice before
But idk anymore

I'm pro-choice... I just really REALLY think it's a last resort & should be treated as such. And avoided if it's not an absolute necessity.
Like. If there's ANY other feasible option, it should be taken above abortion, imo. Buuuuuttttt, I'm not going to judge if someone deems it "necessary". I don't know the intimacies of their personal situations.
I just personally would still feel like I was killing my potential child. No matter what. And even if I needed to, I'd mourn the s**t out of that lost potential child.
Especially with my boyfriend, I NEVER want to EVER have to abort a potential child of ours.

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Post: 94079007_9 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 06:59:02 +0000
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you're back qq

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Post: 94079007_10 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 07:01:59 +0000
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Nooo don't leaveeeee stay until Christmas pls safdgfhgk _(:'C_

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Post: 94079007_11 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 07:02:25 +0000
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I am glad things worked out. I am pro-choice in the general sense, but I don't know if I could go through with it personally, even if my life was at risk.

That's pretty much how I feel.
I mean, I'd do it if I had to, but only because of the GINORMOUS risk to the unborn child because of my meds.
otherwise, I'd never be able to go through with it.
but I've heard enough horror stories about methotrexate babies to never ever ever let a potential child of mine go through that. ._.

but if it wasn't for that, i don't think i could actually convince myself that it's the right choice for me ever.

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Post: 94079007_12 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 07:03:19 +0000
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Nooo don't leaveeeee stay until Christmas pls safdgfhgk _(:'C_

Only if you'll be my christmas present redface

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Post: 94079007_13 created on Sat, 13 Sep 2014 07:04:16 +0000
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I am glad things worked out. I am pro-choice in the general sense, but I don't know if I could go through with it personally, even if my life was at risk.

OMG that would be a horrible position to be in. Time to double up on protection.