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Tucker Blandford Fakes Death To Avoid Wedding

August 15 would have been Alex Lancaster's wedding day -- if her fiancee hadn't faked his own death.

Lancaster, 23, of the United Kingdom, reportedly met Tucker Blandford, also 23, in August 2012, when she was attending college in Connecticut. The two fell quickly in love.

"He was such a gentleman. He showered me with jewelry. We would go out for a posh dinner on the tenth of every month to celebrate the day we got together," Lancaster said, according to the Mirror. "I'd never been in love like that before. I met his family and they treated me like a daughter. His mum and I became so close."

Lancaster feared their good thing would come to an end when she returned home, so when Blandford proposed marriage, she was eager to say yes.

The two talked every day and started planning a wedding in Connecticut. Lancaster said she spent money on a dress, invitations and for flights for Blandford so he could see her in the U.K.

Things changed a few months ago, when she got a call from a man who said he was Blandford's father.

"He told me Tucker had been deeply depressed and wanted to die, so had thrown himself in front of a car," she said, according to Yahoo! News UK. "The man explained that they had been trying to send Tucker off to a psychiatric unit for help. But it was too late. I couldn't breathe. It was absolutely devastating."

She got off the phone emotionally shattered, but things took a weird turn when she called the family back a short time later.

Blandford's mom answered the phone, but had no clue that her son had died. In fact, he was alive and well.

"She said Tucker was absolutely fine –- but she also thought we'd split up," Lancaster told Reveal.co.uk. "She knew nothing about the wedding."

Lancaster quickly discovered that the venue they had supposedly reserved for their wedding had no record of their booking.

Although Blandford has since texted to say he was sorry, and has paid back half the $1,200 he owes her for wedding-related expenses, Lancaster refuses any contact.

"I don't think I'll ever forgive him," she said, according to Reveal.co.uk."Toend to be dead to get out of marrying me is just gutless. If he loved me, how could he do such a thing?"

Blandford admits Lancaster's allegations are true.

"I’m a terrible, awful person. I know I shouldn’t have told her I was dead, but I didn’t know what else to do," he said, according to the Daily Mail. "Alex is an amazing girl but I got scared and wanted to get out of the relationship. It was moving extremely fast and with us being in different countries, it was really hard.

"At the time I just felt like I couldn’t tell the truth and thought if I could just postpone everything it would be better."

Ironically, Lancaster's loss of love led her to a new career. She is now building a successful business making wedding favors, according to the Mirror.

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~facepalm~ Golly,I wouldn't blame her not being too trusting of people for a bit...

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"I’m a terrible, awful person. I know I shouldn’t have told her I was dead, but I didn’t know what else to do," he said, according to the Daily Mail. "Alex is an amazing girl but I got scared and wanted to get out of the relationship. It was moving extremely fast and with us being in different countries, it was really hard.

"At the time I just felt like I couldn’t tell the truth and thought if I could just postpone everything it would be better."


The new American Male. *Sarcastic Clapping*

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I feel bad for the would-be bride, but at the same time I find this situation absolutely hilarious. It'd probably make a decent premise for a movie.

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And the d**k of the Year award goes to....


I particularly liked -
" I know I shouldn’t have told her I was dead, but I didn’t know what else to do.."

Well dude, you COULD have said -
"Alex is an amazing girl but I got scared and wanted to get out of the relationship. It was moving extremely fast and with us being in different countries, it was really hard."

You know - the same thing you had the balls to tell a reporter but not your own fiance.
You seriously suck dude!

Precious Darling

Some part of her is probably relieved she didn't marry a guy like that rofl

Kawaii Shoujo

What an IDIOT... if he felt things were moving to fast, the coward should have talked it over with his fiancee emotion_facepalm emotion_facepalm emotion_facepalm emotion_facepalm
I...just...what!?

I really have no words for how bloody stupid an idea it is. I like to think his parents gave him merry hell for that, mine certainly would! But at least, as the article says, the would-be bride found a new career out of it, silver linings and all that.
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"I’m a terrible, awful person. I know I shouldn’t have told her I was dead, but I didn’t know what else to do," he said, according to the Daily Mail. "Alex is an amazing girl but I got scared and wanted to get out of the relationship. It was moving extremely fast and with us being in different countries, it was really hard.

"At the time I just felt like I couldn’t tell the truth and thought if I could just postpone everything it would be better."


The new American Male. *Sarcastic Clapping*


She was the American, the guy was the brit, or English, or irish, or w/e he was but not american sweatdrop


If you re-read the rather confusing opening lines, you'll see that Alex Lancaster was the would-be bride and is British, she was studying in the USA when she met the American "groom" (took me 2 reads to realise it).

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"I’m a terrible, awful person. I know I shouldn’t have told her I was dead, but I didn’t know what else to do," he said, according to the Daily Mail. "Alex is an amazing girl but I got scared and wanted to get out of the relationship. It was moving extremely fast and with us being in different countries, it was really hard.

"At the time I just felt like I couldn’t tell the truth and thought if I could just postpone everything it would be better."


The new American Male. *Sarcastic Clapping*


She was the American, the guy was the brit, or English, or irish, or w/e he was but not american sweatdrop


If you re-read the rather confusing opening lines, you'll see that Alex Lancaster was the would-be bride and is British, she was studying in the USA when she met the American "groom" (took me 2 reads to realise it).


emotion_facepalm I am usually good at reading something that most misread. Today must be my off day. Thank you for pointing that out.

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Dodged a bullet and got a job. I think this will eventually rate as a win.

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"At the time I just felt like I couldn’t tell the truth and thought if I could just postpone everything it would be better."


yeah because faking your death is the best way to POSTPONE something. rolleyes unless he was gonna lie to her when he finally sacked up. good way to start a marriage. what a jacka**.

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~facepalm~ Golly,I wouldn't blame her not being too trusting of people for a bit...
I will have agree! Don't this wonderful young lady on a goose chase if he didn't want to marry her just tell the truth.I would be so tick that he will never get spoken to ever again.That nerve of that butt head. But that is good she did move on.He wouldn't be so lucky in U.S.A .

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