Every relationship is different, so don't compare your own to what others might do for their sex life. Comparing to others can only cause problems.
What is sex appeal to you?
To me, it's all related to appearance and essentially attempting to attract your your partner, or someone in general. Clothing is perhaps a humans biggest accessories, so what type of clothing and how it's worn is a key factor for sex appeal. After that, I'd say hair.
What makes a person sexy?
This deffinitely varies by person since everyone is attracted to different things... I LOVE well grown facial hair and hairy chests when it's done right, and the only thing I love more is lumberjack built guys. I also find eyes and hair pretty sexy, depending on the haircut.
What sorts of clothing are sexy, and why?
Hard to say for guys, but I think pretty much anything skimpy, and clothing that drapes off the body is considered sexy for woman.
What sorts of movements and actions (that aren't sex in and of themselves) are sexy?
Grinding,lap dance, showing a scandalous amount of cleavage on purpose, I suppose. I'm not the kind of girl to do any of these things, so I really wouldn't know. I get shy as hell when it comes to sex. I was so shy when I was finally ready to see and touch my boyfriend (first for everything, despite me being 22) it took probably 5 minutes of me trying to start things, and I ultimately made him move my hand down to it since it was frozen in nervousness.
Sexy words?
Trash can
Garbage
Filthy white trash
What makes the difference between normal routine sex and something special?
You'll feel the difference. Find out what each others interests are in sex/what each other like or want to try. This way, if something ever happens and you know he'd be interested in it too, you can do something a bit more spontaneous. My boyfriend and I rarely have sex (he has slight ED issues, and I'm just clumsy as all hell) but we went over interests beforehand... Long story short, we ended up ******** in my parents pool (alone of course) and loved it. We both couldn't stop thinking about it for 2 weeks!
What distinguishes a man and a woman in the ways they act sexy or seductive?
Men come up with stupid pick up lines or try to impress the girl, while girls tend to act dumber , or more dominant.
Things you should never do while trying to act seductive?
Be clumsy, hurt him (balls or d**k) , or make weird noises while doing stuff, unless you know he'd laugh it off. As I said, I'm clumsy as hell. I've accidentally hurt my boyfriend in the nuts going on 8 times now in our 1.5 year of dating . Thankfully he can laugh things off and knows I don't mean it.
Anything related.
Don't stress or even give thought to comparing yourself or your relationship to others'. If you really do want to try something or add a spark to the bedroom, ask him what types of stuff he would like to try some time, and go from there