UncleBull
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- Posted: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 23:55:30 +0000
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Gay African Mammoth
and dancing ensued
well it's more like i'm asking if you've been thinking about this topic this whole time lol
i'm opposed to hitting in general, so that includes hitting kids.
i usually tell my step-siblings to treat people respectfully if they want to be treated respectfully, because if they mistreat people they're probably going to get mistreated as well.
hitting kids just leads to more problems.
I feel like this is a 'means justify the ends' kind of argument. Sure, the kid won't ever sleep in rather than going to school anymore, but was it really worth kicking them in the stomach five times? It's a bullshit argument to justify beating the hell out of your kid, and in the end the parent could've figured out a different way to discipline their child.
I'm a respectable adult now, but the mere sign of my father starting to lose his temper is enough to send me into a panic attack because of his choice of punishment when I was a kid.
I guess so. I never really saw it that way, so this is kind of eye opening for me. Because I was a difficult kid and I had ADHD on top of that, I would get in trouble all the time, biting people and stuff like that. I was a dumb impulsive kid. And I would come home with a slip saying I bit someone and then my dad would beat the hell out of me, cause you're not supposed to bite people. I guess it's more of a 'I needed to be punished but he took it way too far'. But corporeal punishment does have a time and a place, I just think talking and explaining should have first dibs. Because that's how people solve their problems in the real world, by talking it out.