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Post: 93247261_16 created on Sat, 19 Jul 2014 20:33:55 +0000
Posted: Sat, 19 Jul 2014 20:33:55 +0000

Etrouse

First of all, you're analyzing this way too much. Seriously, chill out.
Secondly, ask him. It's not that hard.

It's easier said than done.

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Post: 93247261_17 created on Sat, 19 Jul 2014 23:23:33 +0000
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Yeah, just ask him what he's doing one day. Maybe invite him and a few other church friends to the movies or something where you're with a group of people.

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Post: 93247261_18 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 05:39:55 +0000
Posted: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 05:39:55 +0000

Don't over-analyze it can ruin your life. Take it as is and just ask if he wants to go to the cinema or out for ice cream or something! It's better to try and fail than not try at all =]

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Post: 93247261_19 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 10:00:34 +0000
Posted: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 10:00:34 +0000

Idk about him, but I can tell you've got it bad for him. whee
My advice is just be friends first. That way you'll find out more about him and see if he's worth being in a relationship with. Talking seems scary, but its not. Ask him about himself, make him laugh, but above all be yourself.

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Post: 93247261_20 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 15:45:16 +0000
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from a bible institute, and we are now engaged. She has many rules placed against her, in an effort to keep purity. They are by the school, not her choosing. It is to the point now where if I give her a hug, am too close, kiss, hold hands, anything other than a high five that have theoretical 'recharging' times, she will be kicked out. Thankfully she graduates on the 9th of August.

I say all of that to say that he may have a lot of rules or personal convictions on purity and in that sense may not be using a physical side of himself to attract you, and might not until marriage.

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Post: 93247261_21 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 20:22:27 +0000
Posted: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 20:22:27 +0000

LoveLoud837

Well he is the pastors son. But I don't think he really has that many boundaries against him but then again I don't know. But it sounds like you're not denying that he could like me so I like that aha.

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Post: 93247261_22 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 20:23:02 +0000
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her354

Yeah! That's my plan. Friends first. because relationships first almost never work, at least for me.

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Post: 93247261_23 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 20:48:21 +0000
Posted: Mon, 21 Jul 2014 20:48:21 +0000

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Etrouse

First of all, you're analyzing this way too much. Seriously, chill out.
Secondly, ask him. It's not that hard.

It's easier said than done.

See, people say that, but it really isn't all that difficult.

"Hey, how's it going?"
"What have you been up to?"

There you go, two conversation starters.

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Post: 93247261_24 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 21:23:38 +0000
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Yeah! That's my plan. Friends first. because relationships first almost never work, at least for me.

Same here. And if it doesn't work out, at least you've made a new friend.

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Post: 93247261_25 created on Mon, 21 Jul 2014 22:55:38 +0000
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LoveLoud837

Wow that's really strict. I can understand that they want to make sure she avoids temptation, but I wouldn't think the school would have rules about that.