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Post: 74860227_1 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:23:37 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:23:37 +0000

I seem to be overly attracted to asian girls. It even comes to the point that I would not enjoy dates with non-asian girls. I'm begining to think this is kinda shallow, but no matter how hard I try, I seem to feel more affection towards asian girls that any other race.

I don't know if this has something to do with it, but I am asian myself. Is it like programmed in my brain or something?

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Post: 74860227_2 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:25:24 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:25:24 +0000

"Everyone has a preference, what's wrong with it?"

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Post: 74860227_3 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:25:25 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:25:25 +0000

There's nothing wrong with it. Do what makes you happy.
And no, it's not programmed in your brain.

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Post: 74860227_4 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:47:51 +0000
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Are you taking it by looks or personality?

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Post: 74860227_5 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:50:34 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 03:50:34 +0000

at first I thought it was by their looks...

But I've dated blonde and beautiful caucasian girls, and I dont seem to have that much of an interest with them. My friends keep checking out girls they claim are hot but if I see that they're not asian, i just lose interest.

Asian girls have certain actions that attract me. Their voice, their posture and poses, everything.

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Post: 74860227_6 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:03:46 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:03:46 +0000

What's wrong with being crazy about Asian girls?

And you YOURSELF are Asian, so why not??? smile

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Post: 74860227_7 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:06:24 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:06:24 +0000

Get jaundice, then everyone's yellow.

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Post: 74860227_8 created on Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:17:51 +0000
Posted: Wed, 21 Sep 2011 04:17:51 +0000

i dunno, my friends say that if I keep being picky I'll never find a wife.

Plus, I imagine myself in place of a girl I've rejected cuz they're not asian... it kinda feels unfair.

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Post: 74860227_9 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 00:32:25 +0000
Posted: Thu, 22 Sep 2011 00:32:25 +0000

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Its not shallow, I'm white and I've only ever fallen for whites. Different people are attracted to different things. People can not help who they are attracted to, and unless it would harm anyone there is no need to feel bad on acting on it.

Also you shouldn't try to be who you are not. Being attracted to asian girls is a part of who you are. It is not something harmfull so accept and act on it.

Just remember how you can not help being attracted to Asian girls, and that it is perfectly fine since it doesn't hurt anyone when you hear about others who are attracted to certain things (IE gay people)

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Post: 74860227_10 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 00:39:37 +0000
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i dunno, my friends say that if I keep being picky I'll never find a wife.

Plus, I imagine myself in place of a girl I've rejected cuz they're not asian... it kinda feels unfair.

Better to have the right wife then to force yourself to chose the wrong one because the right one has not appeared yet.

and would it truly be so horrible if you didn't find a wife?

It would only be unfair if you forced yourself to say yes or purposely led them on.

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Post: 74860227_11 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 00:41:46 +0000
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FlamingMiniskirts

I can relate but for me it was for almost all guys since I'm pretty puch lesbo

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Post: 74860227_12 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 00:53:30 +0000
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i dunno, my friends say that if I keep being picky I'll never find a wife.

Plus, I imagine myself in place of a girl I've rejected cuz they're not asian... it kinda feels unfair.

Not really. You just prefer Asians... Nothing wrong with that.

I've rejected a prom invitation from a black dude before. One because he was kind of annoying, but two because I didn't want to give him the wrong idea (he had a crush on me and a lot of other Asian girls at my school). He was nice and everything, but I couldn't see myself marrying a black dude.

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Post: 74860227_13 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 04:30:38 +0000
Posted: Thu, 22 Sep 2011 04:30:38 +0000

good point.

But that case only applies if I am the same race as them.
So what if I was white and I like asian girls... will that be any different?

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Post: 74860227_14 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 04:51:06 +0000
Posted: Thu, 22 Sep 2011 04:51:06 +0000

With jungle fever, ooh.

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Post: 74860227_15 created on Thu, 22 Sep 2011 06:32:50 +0000
Posted: Thu, 22 Sep 2011 06:32:50 +0000

Everyone has their own preference and there's nothing wrong with that. I'm an Asian girl and I love my Caucasian boyfriend very much. I've only really ever been interested in Caucasians so I guess I have White fever?

Don't believe any of that bullshit about not being able to find a wife because you're too picky. The world is a big place and trust me, you'll definitely have plenty of Asians to choose from. If geographic location is a problem (ie. hardly any Asians live where you do) you may want to move to a place with a bigger Asian population at some point in the future.

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