MercurysJosiegirl
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- Posted: Fri, 26 Sep 2014 03:50:30 +0000
sodiumfree000
My name is Matt, and you are going to hate me.
I have been promiscuous. I've been with enough women of many different ages and I have realized something about the fairer sex. There are girls and then there are women, and either can be of any age... (I don't mean children tho, mind you. ***** doesn't make any sense. It can only traumatize). I have known those middle aged all the way down to high school. They have been rich, poor, smart, dumb, fat, thin, latina, white, and brown and just about any other category you can imagine. At the extremes I knew a 14 year old who was skilled, responsible, and fun and she didn't take s**t from anyone. She was woman. Plain and simple. I have known a 39 year old who was hugely successful and yet petty, unfocused, and unsure like other girls I have known.
I have been promiscuous. I've been with enough women of many different ages and I have realized something about the fairer sex. There are girls and then there are women, and either can be of any age... (I don't mean children tho, mind you. ***** doesn't make any sense. It can only traumatize). I have known those middle aged all the way down to high school. They have been rich, poor, smart, dumb, fat, thin, latina, white, and brown and just about any other category you can imagine. At the extremes I knew a 14 year old who was skilled, responsible, and fun and she didn't take s**t from anyone. She was woman. Plain and simple. I have known a 39 year old who was hugely successful and yet petty, unfocused, and unsure like other girls I have known.
If we go by societies usage of the word *****, then you have committed that act by being with an underage girl, aka a child. So, saying you're not into it because it doesn't make sense, then admitting to sleeping with a child, is a bit... illogical.
sodiumfree000
Now here's where may start to hate me, because I would prefer a young lady who is an actual woman over stupid girls my age and older any day.
Age is never an indicator of personal quality like we have strongly known it to be and there are good reasons why a difference in experience/age is forbidden... Mostly its because you can never really be an equal. Also, love and lust are newer to them and they have less perspective to decide truly weather you are truly good for them or weather they are simply infatuated. It is so easy for it to end up as manipulation and so ******** up a girl's early understanding of love which might imprint onto her for her life. Warping a girl's sense of relationships when she's just beggening to understand love without risking as much yourself is a ******** up thing to do. The difference in age can be predatory in nature and that's why it is a terrible taboo...
Age is never an indicator of personal quality like we have strongly known it to be and there are good reasons why a difference in experience/age is forbidden... Mostly its because you can never really be an equal. Also, love and lust are newer to them and they have less perspective to decide truly weather you are truly good for them or weather they are simply infatuated. It is so easy for it to end up as manipulation and so ******** up a girl's early understanding of love which might imprint onto her for her life. Warping a girl's sense of relationships when she's just beggening to understand love without risking as much yourself is a ******** up thing to do. The difference in age can be predatory in nature and that's why it is a terrible taboo...
So... even though you're saying doing that is '******** up'... you want to do it? that makes... no sense to me at all.
sodiumfree000
But if you have experience, you know that this s**t applies to everyone. Everyone knows experienced adults who fumble around ignorantly and hurt eachother deeply. Its common. Adults are stupid as s**t and I just don't care. I like women younger than me (not girls tho) cause, for the most part, they haven't been screwed up by life as much yet.
Considering the fact you said you slept with a child, i'm not so sure i believe the bold.
sodiumfree000
To all you men (and women) out there interested in someone too damn young for you: if you care, do it anyway and do it right if you can. Don't demand or force them to do things like a creep. Don't manipulate or abuse them like an a*****e. Young women(or men) are people, not tools for pleasure. Be a good influence to your lover. Introduce her(him) to relationships and teach some things.
I personally have a lot to give, and that's why I like women who are too young for me.
I personally have a lot to give, and that's why I like women who are too young for me.
Seems to me you like them because they're not old enough to have any real experience, which can be detrimental to them because it lets you 'teach' them what you think they need to be like and can be harmful to them in the future.