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Okay, I didn't reply to one of my "friend's" message, and she gets mad.
Look here;
-name here-
How come you didn't answer the last message?!
I wanted to ask you something!
*glares*
*huffs puffs*
scream
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      I mean, seriously.
      It's just a message. She takes it to the heart.
      I can tell she's mad because she wrote the words in bold.
      It's annoying, it's immature, it's stupid.
      She does the same thing at school.
      Whenever I leave her to go to the bathroom, or to ask another friend for something, she's like,
      " glare glare you left me! glare glare "
      Seriously. She says the word glare. It's getting on my nerve and all I want her to do to shut up sometimes and get a heart. Dx

      Should I stop being friends with her and talk it over?
      I'm on the verge on just leaving her behind, but she could be a good friend at 'some' times.User Image
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      I replied to her not to take it to the heart and she shouldn't get mad at little things.
      She told me, "Why do you assume that I'm mad? GEEZ"

      :/
      Alright, now she's just trying to cover up what she says.User Image
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D: Tell her to give you some room and that she cannot be your #1 priority at all times?
Just sit her down and tell her that you can tell she is mad and she doesn't need to actually say glare because you could feel her eyes burning in your back. Also tell her that it gets annoying and she should stop because it's immature. But say it in a nice way like your giving her advice. You could also say that your sorry for not repling. But if she gets mad about it don't put up with her s**t. You don't need friends like that, that get mad over the littlest things, save your self some stress.
Ohh I run across those people every once in a while. Well if it's online, there really isn't much you can do.
It my sound bad, but I just ignore the message for a while but then I later make the initiative to start the conversation between us again.

And if they're still sore over the last message, I just say I was busy then move on to another topic.
They need to learn not to be so sensitive over the internet anyway.

P.S. She could be joking with you?
She sounds really annoying and insecure. If I were you I'd sit her down and tell her that if she can't start acting her age, then you're not going to hang out with her anymore or answer any emails or calls. Then stick to your word. If that doesn't get to her, nothing will.
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Ohh I run across those people every once in a while. Well if it's online, there really isn't much you can do.
It my sound bad, but I just ignore the message for a while but then I later make the initiative to start the conversation between us again.

And if they're still sore over the last message, I just say I was busy then move on to another topic.
They need to learn not to be so sensitive over the internet anyway.

P.S. She could be joking with you?
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      Nah, she's a friend in person as well.
      Joking? I think not.
      I really know her, she would put jk. Dx

      @ everything- thanks for your advice. x3
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      Okay, now she gave me another mail and said that I'd rather talk to my "VIRTUAL" friends than real life friends.
      ( Last week, the police went to our school and gave us all this information about the internet and whatnot.. )

      With the added, " T^T T^T T^T" on every line. .__.User Image
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Some people need reassurance every five and a half seconds.

Maybe you should keep ignoring her and send her on a further loop? XD
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Some people need reassurance every five and a half seconds.

Maybe you should keep ignoring her and send her on a further loop? XD
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      Heh, I've thought of doing that but her and " glare glare glare " annoys me in class. DxUser Image
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      Whoozus what? D:
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Distance yourself until she finds a new bestie to cling to?
She'll still be there to talk to, just without the extra cling, I'd think.

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Tell her that she needs to stop thinking that she's the center of the universe.
Make her talk to more people. Maybe she doesn't have enough other people.
And if she does get upset, then why bother with her?

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