My dad is abusive. He's hurt our cat. He's hit my mom. Kicked my brother. Attacked my sister with a belt six-twelve times. He's shoved me. Talked down to me. He wants to control every single thing. Recently, he shoved my brother into the wall and wrapped his hands around his neck, putting pressure into it and stepped on his foot. I protected my brother, and this made my father angry that he began twisting my fingers like he wanted to break them...
My boyfriend died. My grandma died. And our cat died.. I never got to say goodbye to any of them...
I've been attacked a few times, even at church when we use to go.
A guy tried to run me and my sister over and then pointed a gun at us when I flipped him off.
When we were younger, I got into a ton of fights with my brother. I don't know how many times it got physical, but I do remember the time he started yanking my hair and punching me. Wouldn't let me go..
We were robbed at knife point. The person got away because the police didn't listen to me. ..Idiots.
Whenever I visit my family, they always criticize me. I eat too much. I eat too little. They don't like my hair or the way I dress. Everything I do is wrong.
I can't go out where I want or when I want because I'm not allowed to go anywhere alone. It's difficult to be active when my brother is lazy. Because of this, I have no friends in the city.
We were home schooled all our life. There were a few years when our mother did not teach us. Because of that, we were in school longer. When we were reaching adulthood, she decided to switch us to Penn Foster so that we can get it done quicker.. It's like a GED, but easier. It felt like I had to start all over... After years of not doing work, it was hard to get into. Because of the hold up, I couldn't "begin" my life. That was very frustrating for me.. I felt like a failure. So glad that's done and over with. Although I have finally gotten a diploma, it still has wasted a lot of years.
I've been bullied. I've been stalked. I've had people say mean things. People like drama. Because I'm different, I'm an easy target.
I've almost drowned five times. There was actually a time when my father pushed me into the pool to force me to learn how to swim. I could have drowned that time, too.. Another time when I almost drowned, I had to call my father up. Instead of comforting me, glad that I was okay.. he was screaming at me and telling me how stupid I was. It made me wish I actually did die that day..
My brother went to visit our dad. They went swimming and my brother almost drowned. He told me.. I thought he told my mother. She ended up finding out because I spoke with her about it. She blamed me for not being there. Basically saying that if he drowned to death, it would have been my fault. I can't even swim.. So if I saved him, we both would have drowned. I just feel like she would rather him live than I..
I cut into my arm "Worthless" in big letters. One day, I forgot all about it. I just woke up from sleep and got out of bed. I wasn't in pain, so I didn't make sure the shirt had sleeves. I left my room with my arms showing.. and my mom called me out on it. She got so angry.. She wasn't comforting me. She started talking behind my back and criticizing me. Threatened to send me to a therapist. I was so mad at her that day.. But as time went on, I really wish she would have done it. She didn't. She did nothing..
Another time, my mother asked me what was wrong. She told me she thought it was because of the people in my life hurting me.. I started to tear up and cry. I told her how much I wanted to kill myself. That I don't want to.. but life is such a struggle and I can't be happy anymore. I feel numb inside.. because of all these years of depression. It just never goes away. I was hoping that was our breakthrough. Of course.. as the days went on, she did nothing..
I feel like nobody understands how serious this is. And I feel like the only time people will really care is when I'm finally gone. I know for a fact that it is possible for me to take my life with no hesitation. I've made plans. I know what to do. I'm not afraid of death. I've lived a life feeling lonely.. Being cheated on. Being canceled on more times than I can count. Having no friends in person. My family is distant with each other.. I have no place of comfort.. and it's eating me up inside.
Every time I try to be positive, my family steps in to bring me down with their negativity.