Lady Heather Kessler
I want to resume a lifestyle my friends and family don't know I am involved in and I might try to tell them. I wonder how I should do so.
If you want to pm me about it go ahead. This totally depends.
If you want to be honest to yourself, friends, and family, and keep no secrets, then go tell them
If you want to really be safe, contemplate how telling them will not only affect you, but the effect it will have on others, such as family, friends, and anyone else involved.
Eh... For example, if I told my family and friends that me eating disorder was actually not "fixed." Pssh, as though 2 meetings with the creepy old cat loving shrink could possibly "fix" that....
how would it affect them?
how would it affect me?
how would it affect the lifestyle?
Ok... totally something controversial about an eating disorder being a lifestyle. However, I am only trying to use it as an example and by no means do I promote it as a lifestyle... I just want some control.