Parallel 5ths mule
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- Posted: Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:25:53 +0000
What is it with the youth these days?! gonk
I was at a new job this last summer and every one there was completely befuddled that I had made it to 20 without having a child, as if that's weird or something.
I was up in the break room one time talking to a coworker about some money issues and affording school and he said that because I wasn't married yet at the time I should have a baby with my fiancee so I can get money from the government. As if babies don't cost a boat load of money. stressed
Now, lately, I was talking to a new neighbor and she just couldn't get over the fact that at my age, I was married and didn't have a child. Because, you know, people don't marry any more for love, they just marry their baby's daddy.
What the hell, Gaia?! Why is it all of a sudden weird to be responsible? How come people think that having a baby is just going to make all the problems go away? These aren't even "ghetto" people. They're just normal people who came from good homes, had good grades in high school, went/go to college, you know, typical American folks. Why am I the strange one for actually having a plan for my life?!
Edit: this is not a flame on those who accidentally get pregnant, decide to keep the baby, and become great parents. this is a flame on those who intentionally have a baby for stupid reasons.
I was at a new job this last summer and every one there was completely befuddled that I had made it to 20 without having a child, as if that's weird or something.
I was up in the break room one time talking to a coworker about some money issues and affording school and he said that because I wasn't married yet at the time I should have a baby with my fiancee so I can get money from the government. As if babies don't cost a boat load of money. stressed
Now, lately, I was talking to a new neighbor and she just couldn't get over the fact that at my age, I was married and didn't have a child. Because, you know, people don't marry any more for love, they just marry their baby's daddy.
What the hell, Gaia?! Why is it all of a sudden weird to be responsible? How come people think that having a baby is just going to make all the problems go away? These aren't even "ghetto" people. They're just normal people who came from good homes, had good grades in high school, went/go to college, you know, typical American folks. Why am I the strange one for actually having a plan for my life?!
Edit: this is not a flame on those who accidentally get pregnant, decide to keep the baby, and become great parents. this is a flame on those who intentionally have a baby for stupid reasons.