Palekids
Here is my problem, I've been dating this person for a little over a two years now and everything has been fairly good aside from a few breaks here and there but nothing to traumatizing to our relationship. For the past month or so I've been thinking about a lot and most of it dealing with the idea of someone out there that would be better suited for me. Now you may get the wrong impression and assume something is wrong within our relationship but to be honest things are fine, we're happy. Is it weird to think about things like this? How could I be happy and yet yearn for someone else (no one specific)? My past relationships have always been with people I liked but never really had a lot in common with each other but focused heavily on the things we did. The person I'm seeing now on the other hand has yielded the most potential as far as interests but on the other side they like my interests and not passionate about them as I am. I know that may be asking much but don't you all think that you shouldn't have to settle for anyone less than perfect if you plan to be with them? By saying that wouldn't it be wrong to "stay" with someone versus "being" with someone? I'm rambling, sorry. Give me feedback and please don't hold back. I want full honesty here.
Dear OP,
I think you have a simple case of falling out of love here. Just because things are good in the relationship and they haven't done anything wrong and you haven't done anything wrong, does not mean you have to stay with this person. It seems very clear to me that you have in fact stopped feeling for this person and I strongly suggest that you end it before those feelings start to show in your behaviour towards the person you are with.
Remember OP, leaving someone because you don't like them is a perfectly valid reason. Good luck.