Intercourse Help!!!

[SchizoSpazz]

Since lube, arousal, STDs and latex allergies were brought up, here's other ideas:

Vaginiminus (I'm surprised nobody else brought this up. It's where your vaginal muscles clench up involuntarily and to put anything in there hurts (p***s, finger, tampon, it doesn't matter), and no amount of lube will help).

Yeast infections can cause pain, regardless of how much lubrication

Some of this could be trauma related to sex. Not that I'm saying this is what it is, because I don't know you or your history, but if you were assaulted or raped, your body could be treating any sex afterwards, consensual or otherwise, as if it was assault or rape again. I think this can also happen to those with strict religious backgrounds. These are cases that require therapy, and it would be a good idea to have a doctor check it out

Lastly, if it burns and you're not using condoms, it could be a semen allergy. It's extremely rare, but it happens.

The nothing, I don't know about that. Can't help you there. Sorry.

[The Harem King]

Sex is supposed to feel good, not painful... If it hurts because you're dry down there, you should try lube. If that's not the case, you're better off seeing a gynecologist

[Herbal Diascia]

Chicken Zombie

You could have some pelvis infection. STDS and other things can also cause pain like that. I would get a full check up including a pap smear and an STD test before continuing.

I don't have STD's I said this already...

[Stale Taste]

Senpai Has Noticed

Chicken Zombie

You could have some pelvis infection. STDS and other things can also cause pain like that. I would get a full check up including a pap smear and an STD test before continuing.

I don't have STD's I said this already...

Have you been checked in the last six months...? If not, it is time to get a swab and blood test. emotion_awesome

[ArcticMars]

If you're not sexually interested in men you don't get wet and it will hurt. That's how I learned I was gay. Plus he had a really large p***s and I don't like that either.

[Pleikaaun]

huh. i have same problem. . .

tried all suggestions in this thread.

none of them work.

then figured maybe I was a lesbian and not bisexual as always presumed.

but didn't make sense because gay porn turns me on as much as lesbian porn.

i have given up now.

[ArcticMars]

Pleikaaun

huh. i have same problem. . .

tried all suggestions in this thread.

none of them work.

then figured maybe I was a lesbian and not bisexual as always presumed.

but didn't make sense because gay porn turns me on as much as lesbian porn.

i have given up now.

Give up on what?

[SirDojanDis]

I'm just going to reiterate the foreplay suggestion. After 8 different partners and 7 years with one guy, I had never experienced painless sex. It hurt every time. I hated it and thought I was asexual. turns out I'm not. I recently got into a relationship with a great guy, and have not had a single instance of painful sex. The things i've noticed, we make out a lot, we use our hands, and go down on each other beforehand. 100% better. I would still go see a doctor, but maybe it just hasn't been right yet.

[Pleikaaun]

LilithDraco

Pleikaaun

huh. i have same problem. . .

tried all suggestions in this thread.

none of them work.

then figured maybe I was a lesbian and not bisexual as always presumed.

but didn't make sense because gay porn turns me on as much as lesbian porn.

i have given up now.

Give up on what?

sex obviously

[ArcticMars]

Pleikaaun

LilithDraco

Pleikaaun

huh. i have same problem. . .

tried all suggestions in this thread.

none of them work.

then figured maybe I was a lesbian and not bisexual as always presumed.

but didn't make sense because gay porn turns me on as much as lesbian porn.

i have given up now.

Give up on what?

sex obviously

Masturbation is better.

[The anti-social cookie]

So question, Do you actually feel connected to your partner? Like are you honestly attracted to said person?

Because if you aren't into them you wont be into the sex.

Another question, Do you know what you like? What turns you on? Where your boundaries and lines are?

If you are just having sex to keep your partner happy and not to make you happy it wont be good or great. I do agree with everyone else here and go talk to your doc about it. That is why they are there!