nalyehe
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- Posted: Sun, 21 Sep 2014 18:38:55 +0000
hi, please don't quote (two notifications)
first, what does it mean when a guy tells a girl that she's wild??? we went to a club and danced and kissed and he told me i was wild. (edit; we didn't meet at this club) is he seeing a longer term relationship or is he just seeing me as a fun person to hang out with when he needs it? or am i reading too much into it? second, after our (second) date we went to his home and we ended up kissing. he asked me to give him a bj but, because those things mean a lot to me, i told him no and we didn't. he didn;t force it at all, he is the first guy to not insist that i do it and i like him even more for that. he didn't get whiney or pissy about it and he stopped right away. but now i'm worried that he'll see me as a prude??? because i also told him i've never had sex (true, and he also wanted but i was really afraid) and "prude" "up tight" and "not fun" are what i have been called before in the past. i just asdfghjk i feel like i blew it somewhere but i really don't want that he think those things of me. and i've never really dated before, i don't know what to expect or what to do. sad because i'm in my 20s already but feeling like a 13 year old ;_;
first, what does it mean when a guy tells a girl that she's wild??? we went to a club and danced and kissed and he told me i was wild. (edit; we didn't meet at this club) is he seeing a longer term relationship or is he just seeing me as a fun person to hang out with when he needs it? or am i reading too much into it? second, after our (second) date we went to his home and we ended up kissing. he asked me to give him a bj but, because those things mean a lot to me, i told him no and we didn't. he didn;t force it at all, he is the first guy to not insist that i do it and i like him even more for that. he didn't get whiney or pissy about it and he stopped right away. but now i'm worried that he'll see me as a prude??? because i also told him i've never had sex (true, and he also wanted but i was really afraid) and "prude" "up tight" and "not fun" are what i have been called before in the past. i just asdfghjk i feel like i blew it somewhere but i really don't want that he think those things of me. and i've never really dated before, i don't know what to expect or what to do. sad because i'm in my 20s already but feeling like a 13 year old ;_;