Elegant Gothic Lolita Etiquette
1. There is a code of conduct that must be followed. Politeness is key. While elegant Lolitas and ameroris are very cute and childish, elegant aristocrats are quieter and more reserved. Kindness and elegance are appreciated more than screaming and rude sarcasm.
2. It is elegant gothic Lolita for a reason. One should avoid using slang and crude language. Speech should be sophisticated. Kodonas can be less strict and more angsty in their language, but swearing should still be avoided.
3. A Lolita should carry herself well. Always look straight and forward. Smiling will show you have confidence, even if you do not quite feel it yet yourself. Posture is important. Shoulders straight. Do not slouch. Sit with toes, feet, and knees aligned. Crossing one's legs is frowned upon, but crossing the ankles is fine. Walk from the waist, and you will look elegant.