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Carfuffle Report | 03/02/2014 11:09 am

Thanks for the jacket!!

Rinoa2000 Report | 01/31/2014 10:26 am

I've moved out on my own, but I'm basically scraping by. I'm barely making enough money to pay the bills and rent with none left over for food. I'm looking into getting government aid since I'm basically on the poverty line. I have bad days but I'm doing okay.

Rinoa2000 Report | 12/08/2013 12:10 pm

Well, the Tuesday before Thanksgiving he left me. I feel like he put up a front that he was trying until he just couldn't fake it. I don't know why he lied to me like that for so long. Honestly, I was in shock and I cried pretty hard, but ever since then I've just hit my closure really and I'm doing alright.

Rinoa2000 Report | 11/14/2013 1:10 pm

I'm glad to hear your daughter is healthy. By the way, if you can afford it, I would recommend taking her to the eye doctor at about 10 months old for her first check up. It seems crazy young but if she has any visual problems like a lazy eye or things like that it can be fixed super early on. Also, look into people who participate with a program called "InfantSee" if the baby is 6-11 months the program will cover the first eye exam for free. Hey, I work at an eye doctor, the things you learn right?
My fiance and I are still together but communicating with him is impossible. Not only is he impossible to get a hold of but he doesn't answer texts or leave voicemails if he calls or anything like that. Trying to talk to him is super hard because it's just meaningless small talk. I really don't know if we're together anymore in terms of how the relationship has gone and honestly, at this point, I'm really not sure if I care if it dies or not right now. I mean, if this ends, it's going to ******** hurt, but it's better than being in a marriage that you know you've made the wrong decision in. I just don't know what to do right now.
And I rarely check Gaia or Facebook so it doesn't matter if your responses are slow.

Rinoa2000 Report | 10/28/2013 7:58 pm

Yeah. We are actually seeing a couple's counselor tomorrow because it's gotten pretty bad. We've had some serious problems--not handling them very well at all. Unfortunately, Andrew's decided to block me out and not communicate with me in anyway at all. With him being 3+ hours away, I can't exactly knock on his door and say "what the hell" so things have been quite... fun lately. After going on for over 4 years, we're pretty close to breaking up.

Rinoa2000 Report | 10/11/2013 8:01 am

We had a long hash out last night, spent about 2+ hours bickering and yelling and just sitting in silence working through crap and we still don't have a resolution to some things. Blarg.

Rinoa2000 Report | 09/06/2013 11:42 am

I feel so bad for Andrew for when I'm pregnant. I feel like I should just start apologizing now to him for the whole ordeal. Same with the monthly visit from nature. God, we seriously can't help it.

Rinoa2000 Report | 05/29/2013 10:51 am

I've grown a lot in terms of being squirmish though I'm still a complete dork. That will never change that's for sure. Currently Andrew and I are going through pre-maritial counsiling (which is required by the Pastor we selected) and I wasn't really into it but it's been putting a lot of things on the table in terms of our relationship and it's also been bringing up a lot of questions we haven't asked each other yet. Considering I'm a really interverted person it's a little uncomfortable for me but we only have 6 sessions so it shouldn't be too difficult.

Rinoa2000 Report | 03/08/2013 1:35 pm

Andrew doesn't want kids right away so I'll have to hold off for at least a couple years when we're first married. We're still looking at locations and when we can book will depend on what date we choose for our wedding. Once those are finally down and written in stone, things can really get underway.

Rinoa2000 Report | 03/06/2013 2:31 pm

We are going to get married in late May 2014 since that's the month he'll graduate from college and since he'll head out of state for grad school most likely, we want to be together by that point. So if we push it further it's waiting for nothing really. I have looked at decorations but you can get cheap streamers and stuff and make pretty things as well if you get enough friends together. My mom is going to sew all the bridesmaid dresses the girls will just have to pay for their fabric and their shoes. Andrew is very much of everything he will give input but he wants me to make all the final decisions. My mom and I took Wilton classes so we are both certified to make professionally decorated cakes, but neither of us want to put in the work.