I started with IMVU it's cool if you don't like free moving etc. I love SL. I have a little parcel of land there with a tree house that I built and other stuff. there. I'm a bat version of a neko there.
Lol, I come on to check my daily chances deals etc and see what reward I get for logging in. Hardly have messages.
None of my rp things still go. Or if I post no one usually bites. They did for a bit but not really anymore.