After establishing a friendship, ask her out. Don’t be intense or overly forward. Just ask if she would like to join you on a dinner date or similar outing. Chances are, she was waiting for you to turn on the romance switch and will accept. Once a Chinese woman does, make all the arrangements. Also, ensure that you have money to pay for the entire date. This is expected in Chinese dating culture. You will not see a Chinese woman again if you go Dutch. It is the man’s job to take charge and part of his role is paying for the date.