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Report | 02/21/2009 5:46 pm

LOL thankss. im like really mad at some of my friends. there being bitches >=[ i don't think i'm going to be friends with them ever again. well maybe for one of them i mightt. =P

Report | 02/21/2009 5:41 pm

Pandah Luv

Ya i know. How can i report something like that?

Report | 02/21/2009 5:40 pm

Grim Grisly

What?
Are you okay?
o 3o

Report | 02/21/2009 5:39 pm

ZygoteLegion

Yeah, for me it's almost a win-win situation. XD And Randy doesn't really have the right to say anything. And even worse, he rejected ME. I didn't ditch him. So in the end if I go for anyone else he's really kinda the one that looks like an a** if he tells me to stop. I mean... first he rejects the girl, THEN he tells her who not to date? He'd just look a total a**.

I liked Brent before I got to know Randy. But then I caught wind of Brent's internet girlfriend. But that's really none of my business. Brent offered ME the friends with benefits option. I did not, for one second, open that door up for him. So, I would've gone after Brent for starters but I caught wind of the girlfriend and instead went for the single friend. No real problem there morally. XD But the single friend is a douche and showed his true colors. I can't imagine there being an issue in that sense.

When I first met Brent, through Brandon, I actually did like him. But I tend to go after SINGLE guys. XD But I can play a little dirty pool sometimes. Randy sure as hell felt like playing dirty pool. I don't tolerate the on-again-off-again attitude. And I like Brent separately all by himself. And Brent knows that.

And I'm sorry your ex's name is Brandon. It's a very common name. D: You must have to endure the a lot. And it seems like Brandons just make bad boyfriends. XD lol Every Brandon I've ever met has. Not that my Brandon isn't a good FRIEND. He's just a little too thoughtless to be a boyfriend. XD

Report | 02/21/2009 5:36 pm

God of the Universe

Yes mhm.
Hmm well if what he says is true and every word he says then he does sincerely care for you.
But you must ask yourself if you truly feel the same for him?

Report | 02/21/2009 5:36 pm

Pandah Luv

probably. -_- but i mean like i chose the pay through phone bill gaia just had me calling them 20 times to let me know to call again.

Report | 02/21/2009 5:33 pm

Pandah Luv

sorta pissed off. I tried to buy gaia cash using the phone bill method and gaia was being really epicly gay having me calling there number over and over again and not giving me my gaia cash -_-

Report | 02/21/2009 5:33 pm

Grim Grisly

:c

Report | 02/21/2009 5:27 pm

God of the Universe

Yes. I think I may have felt what you are feeling maybe to a lesser degree or the same, but even so, I don't think it's a good choice.

Report | 02/21/2009 5:27 pm

Grim Grisly

Sorry.

Report | 02/21/2009 5:19 pm

Grim Grisly

D:<

Report | 02/21/2009 5:08 pm

ZygoteLegion

Well, yeah. I don't know what to think of him either. Brandon's a good friend. But I could never date him. We already know this. He's pursued me for three years (but I've always had the same stance on the issue so to not lead him on). And Brandon and I agree that we are going in totally different directions in our lives. Being mature about it. He'd LIKE to have sex with me. And he's not bad looking. But I know his emotions for me run deeper than just sex. And to sleep with him (even as a rebound) would be totally unfair to him. He's a good friend and I'd never want to hurt his feelings like that. The same thing Randy said to me. But I have enough mental sense to actually follow through with what I say. So I hope Brandon does set him straight. But Brandon and I wouldn't get along in a relationship. But we're great friends.

As for Brent. Well, yeah.. I wouldn't really go for Brent, either. He's all wrong for me. But in a friends with benefits situation, well... that's not so bad. I'm conflicted. I realize that by going for Brent, who I'm not as emotionally concerned about because he's been kinda rude to me despite liking me, it might backfire. It'd be putting myself in a devalued position. But at the same time I have to decide if it's worth devaluing myself to get in under Randy's skin. Spend some time with Brent (which I DO get along with and we share a whole lot in common). But the thing is, Randy has already blown it with me. So if he decides that he wants me back... that's just simply not possible. I've already shut that door in my mind. And there's nothing he can do to open it up again. So he'd just have to sit there and endure it because HE'S the one that told me that he wanted friends only after he already opened Pandora's box. And so he can't tell me what I can and can't do the way a boyfriend can. And he can't tell me who I can and can't date. And, in fact, has no right to poke his nose into my business if I want to date his best friend. XD Because he and I never actually were together. And that gives him absolutely no power and there's no rule about dating the girl your best friend rejected outright. Not like the rule of "don't date your best friend's ex". I'm not an ex, I never was anything to him. So that puts a lot of restrictions away and opens up a lot of opportunity.

I just have to weigh it out. I could go for Brent... who is cute and smart and we have a LOT of the same interests, similar personality traits, and everything. I just didn't like him as much as Randy because Randy seemed like a very NICE person at the time. But I see now that he isn't that nice. So I don't really feel obligated to be that nice, either. D: I think people should get what they dish out. And I may have the opportunity to deliver on that. And, besides, I could get no-strings-attached sex out of it. For ME. And I've been totally needin' that for a while. XD Just to be honest. It's been 10 months since I broke up ith my last boyfriend. It's almost a year now and it's not fair. Randy was a b*****d to me. So I don't see why I SHOULDN'T do something for MYSELF for once. XD

Report | 02/21/2009 5:05 pm

guy49

if i talk with my mom at all, it's almost impossible to get mad at her.
Our generation is ADD, so we actually need the constant feed of different information that IM'ing provides. talking on the phone is to much of a drag and demands to much attention to one thing

Report | 02/21/2009 5:03 pm

Grim Grisly

******** YOU

Report | 02/21/2009 5:03 pm

God of the Universe

But being with someone for the sake of being with them is a weak reason.
Being alone may be better than to find someone for the sake of ridding your loneliness.

Report | 02/21/2009 4:55 pm

God of the Universe

Yes I see.
If that is your reasoning, then you're wrong. Never settle for number two because you can't get what you want.

Report | 02/21/2009 4:54 pm

Grim Grisly

D:
lol
Good morning to you then.

Report | 02/21/2009 4:47 pm

guy49

yea, i dont like my mom very much. all she does is b***h.
I dont have many people i talk with on the phone for to long. my other ex was the one i did the 6 hours with, but she got really boring n s**t.
yea, exactly. IM'ing is far better than using a phone. and with the phone, ur stuck with 1 person for god knows how long.

Report | 02/21/2009 4:44 pm

God of the Universe

Well that is hard for me to say based on the fact that I don't know much about him.

Report | 02/21/2009 4:43 pm

ZygoteLegion

Well, it's standard procedure for me in my life. I'm called The Chaos for a reason. And that's because once one chaotic thing pops up a vortex soon forms. I tried to be very nice and all about the situation with him. I gave him so many opportunities to back out of it, save face, keep friendship. I kept saying and saying that it's OK to say no and to just stay friends. And he just didn't listen to me. The stupid thing is... he's not really the immature bipolar one, his roommate is. I wonder if the roommate didn't have something to do with the sudden change of attitude. He went from like SUPER into me to dead literally over night. I dunno. But you're right, I don't need this crap. D: It's really obnoxious.

And I think he'll have to face his decisions in the near future. Once Brandon catches wind of what Randy did, Brandon's NOT gonna be happy about it. As much as Brandon and I disagree we get along mostly now. And Brandon STILL has a crush on me and is super protective of me. I found that out last night. And Brandon.. he's at least able to take no for an answer and still be friends. I think once he finds out what Randy did Brandon's going to change his ENTIRE opinion of him. Because Brandon kept telling me what was going on behind the scenes, my eyes on the inside. And Brandon was 110% convinced that Randy liked me. He won't understand where all this came from. He might even be mad on my behalf. I know Julius is.

I wonder if I shouldn't be spiteful and take Brent up on his friends with benefits offer now. XD Since I'm no longer seeing where things with Randy are going. I know Brent's a total a*****e. But it WOULD be a swift kick to the ego. And perhaps a much needed one. Because, seriously, he was so quick to cold shoulder me and shoot me down... there was really no opportunity for there to be something between us. And Randy knows Brent propositioned me and that he said he liked me. So it wouldn't be a big leap to go for Brent now. XD And it WOULD be a horrible thing for Randy to have to endure I'm sure. I'll have to consider if I'm willing to pull out that much Girl-Evil or not, though. It COULD backfire. XD

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