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It's been a long time since I last updated this, and probably will be a long while for next time. Much has changed in life, but the bonds I have made here on Gaia still fill my heart with warmth. I still check my account periodically, usually a few times every 3-4 months, so if we used to chat here and you've been wondering how I have been go ahead and shoot me a PM! I'll get it eventually.

If you want to hit me up but aren't sure what to chat with me about, some things I really enjoy right now include: D&D, Delicious in Dungeon, Showtime Princess Peach, Final Fantasy (especially Crystal Chronicles, X, XI, XII, XIII, and XIV), Baldur's Gate 3, Animal Crossing New Horizons, Persona 5, Harvest Moon/Story of Season, and the yearly Art Fight submission!

Random facts:

• I have 3 cats
• I have an amazing qpp and long distance partner
• I have sooo many tattoos
• I love socializing online but don't like voice calls unless we are really close
• I stream on twitch
• My current fave 5e classes are rogues and monks
• I made my first FFXIV character before A Realm Reborn came out
• I couldn't play past character creation because my laptop sucked
• A few years ago one of my hometown pals got me back into it
• I now main as a monk with dreams of being a pictomancer
• The monthly sub is expensive in CAD so I currently only play a few months outta the year
• I started a Curse of Strahd campaign over two years ago with a monk rock gnome
• After his death I switched to Victor Vallakovich, an angsty 19 year old wizard
• My main D&D group is all queer/afab folk and I love them
• My 2nd D&D group is online only but the character dynamics and roleplay are unrivaled
• I was diagnosed with a heart condition in 2023 and have since fallen into cozy game paradise as a way to cope. Stardew, anyone?
• I love to do tarot readings and witchy things
• I like to write and roleplay in my free time
• I work in the tech industry and have for nearly a decade
• I love drawing a lot as a destresser but also to express all the good emotions
• I love love love LOVE giving people gifts and I want my friends to know they are spoiled and loved by me
• Once you have my love or friendship it's for life
• I've been told on several occasions I am way too nice and forgiving but the truth is I just expect everyone has the best intentions at heart
• I am a big mental health advocate, and in particular for personality disorders — educating yourself on these disorders makes a big difference
• Kuromi is my baby
• I love plants but can't garden
• I love a good murder mystery and true crime podcast
• my favourite aesthetics are pastel goth, 2000s emo clothing, and pink strawberry
• idk life is on hard mode for everyone so let's just be kind to people


I am laid back to a fault and it is difficult to stir up strong emotions in me 90% of the time. The apathy is real so sometimes my tone reads poorly online while my voice irl is quite animated like a cartoon character. If something I've said comes across poorly tone-wise please let me know and I'd be happy to clarify my meaning and then adjust how I communicate in the future. You'll find if you can come to the table in good faith to have difficult discussions in times of conflict, you'll have a friend for life in me. Arguments are not about you vs the other party but us versus the problem. I really appreciate people with the compassion to hear another's perspective and share their own from a non-emotional place. If you're the type to yell at someone because you're angry and ghost people during a conflict, we will likely clash. At the end of the day I'm out here to have fun, so let's chat about tea, our current favourite cozy games, comfort shows, and which Pokemon we'd have on our teams if we could and have a blast together!

I have a tendency to overexplain myself a lot in most situations so I often type a lot for questions. I am sorry in advance if that reads as trying to change your perception on something we both experienced; it's not intentional and I am working on expanding the ways in which I ensure I felt heard while respecting another's preferences for how they like to receive information. I tend to ramble a lot and fixate on issues if I feel I have been misunderstood and I know it's the 'tism but I am trying to overcome the long AF novels I write when asked stuff.

Until next time, stay happy and healthy.



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