Hello! Just spending it with Mom, dad, sister & her hubby. Aunt & uncle probably not coming this year cuz of Covid.
So it'll mostly be the same as every year for me pretty much.
What are your plans? smile
I'm pretty dependable I think but for some reason they don't come to me. I just assume everyone here rather wallow in their misery then tell someone about it b/c they don't wanna feel like a burden or something. I also told them they could PM me if they need to talk but pretty much no one ever does so idk.
It's actually NOT obvious you care even when you msg someone just saying hi or something b/c ppl will assume you only msged b/c you are bored, not b/c you care about them. Ppl will never know that if you don't tell them. Like I said, most of them are oblivious.
Well I'm pretty honest but that can be a major detriment for me, it tends to push ppl away b/c they often don't like what I have to say.
Very true & my female friend did answer my PM when she came back so she's not ignoring me, just probably doesn't have time for Gaia anymore.
....Btw that reminds me, sometimes it might take me a few days to answer if I'm really tired or depressed. But I'm not ignoring you or anyone else. Or sometimes I just straight up forget to answer so you can always poke me if I forget. xd
How do you always find a way to answer without actually answering? That has to be some kind of talent. stressed
I didn't ask if you talk often or not, I asked if you actually tell them when you are down. You will see ppl's true colors on how they feel about you when you ask them for help, cuz either they will be there for you or they won't. But you can't assume they won't just b/c they're not actually here on this particular website. Just b/c they abandoned (or taken a hiatus from) Gaia, doesn't mean they abandoned YOU. I had a female friend on here that split from Gaia for MONTHS b/c she was really down, got her life back together and came back. She left again but at least when she came back she said she missed me & it felt real b/c she always seems genuine & sweet. I can understand her not having time for this place anymore but it doesn't mean that she doesn't care about me. Maybe next time she comes back I will ask her for an IM or email so we can keep in touch, maybe you should do the same for your friends that you feel you want to keep in touch with. If you want ppl to care about you, you also have to show you care about them as well. I think you are too afraid to show feelings.
I know it's kind of a guy thing but you don't ask for what you want, you're pretty much guaranteeing that you will never get it. "No reward without risk" or however the saying goes.
I don't know about millions, but I certainly would be interested in reading/ hearing it. smile
You didn't answer - do you tell them when you're feeling down or when you need help?
I just lost one last night on Discord.....yet he didn't delete me on Gaia so idk what that means. I'm guessing he just forgot & will delete me later?
Either way, I like what you wrote b/c it sounds like lyrics. mrgreen You should make that into a song.
IRL friends or Gaia friends?
Sometimes you actually have to tell them that you're down or at least show them in some way, ppl are oblivious most of the time.
Hey you rhymed, did you do that on purpose? xd
I'll get over it I think, it's just that ppl won't even give me the smallest things that would make me happy, even the things I already do for them, hardly anyone reciprocates here.
Hurts more b/c they're supposed to be friends.
What happened? You can PM it to me if you want. *Hugs* =)