Some women buy into the unrealistic beauty standards quite heavily. They become bitter, and angry that they can't meet the standards they pick to idealize. And, they hold others to the same ideals, and also get angry that others aren't meeting the ideal either. So, they become very anger-problem type borderline about beauty. They can also be sorrowful in their overflowing cup of emotions, too.
I believe women have a right to be angry. But, just like men sometimes do, they target the wrong people in their anger. Women are sometimes abusers.
So, while I'm saying you've a right to your emotions, and that they're in themselves healthy to have. Do remember that sometimes they're misguided.