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My life in a Triad
No, That's mine!
Question:

Does anybody get super jealous with their partner??? Like you see them talking to someone else, and you can't help but get this feeling in your gut?

Ya, jealousy.

When we look at jealousy, what really causes it? Is it because your significant other is talking to someone else? Or could it be that you're worried there enjoying the other person instead of you?

SELF-CONFIDENCE ISSUES TO THE MAX!!!

I'm the worst person to talk to about confidence. I struggle on a daily with how I look, and if people will like me. Or if my partner (P.S. Partners for me.) will actually want someone else instead of me.

I know it's just rambling. I get it. But it needs to be said.

If your partner, significant other, or lover is talking or wanting to spend more time with someone else, does that really mean they don't love you?

If someone doesn't love you, then you wouldn't be there. I learned that the hard way.

And that go's with both my partners. It's a constant struggle with all three of us to know that the others love us. But if we didn't love each other, then we wouldn't be there.

Jealousy comes from that insecurity. Thinking someone is better than you are. Which is WRONG on so many levels!

You are you and there is nobody that could take your place!

Love is a gift, Not an obligation. Enjoy the time with your partner/s and look to the future.

It's not easy to get over self-Confidence easy, but it takes time!


So that's my rant for the day. Hope it helps someone out there.

Jelousy is not helpful!!!!

flamingriku001
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