mom said in the car today (actually,she had posted on fb, but i didn't say anything) that my aunt, her sister died 11 years ago today.
in the car. i replied i thought it was only 10 years.
she said she looked at the obituary.

i was still baffled and just let it go. i didn't push it.

only i just looked it up. and it was 10 years ago.