Aw, I'm so sad for you. I lost my cat Mr. Gray to pancreatic cancer in July 2012 and I still miss him so much; he was only five. I like animals more than most people; luckily I still have 2 of his bros and his mom (my fave). And Gray was soft too, like your Lady...I still get sad that he's gone when I look at his picture. Hang in there, fellow cat lover. emotion_hug heart