MY HUSBAND WENT TO HIS WEEKEND!!!! Omgoodness... So awesome to see that transformation.
Here is a list of before on my husband and a list after
Before the weekend
- He constantly set himself a failure before he gives himself a chance
Saying things like "I'm too stupid to do that", "why couldn't I just have this stuff done already?" "I can't believe I let my family down because of how I was" "I can never do that."
- He would get so mad and it would spew out of his mouth like sewage, would say hurtful things, had his mindset that I was against him when I came back from my weekend.
"If you go to a place that won't let you tell me what happened or what you did, that is a cult, they brain washed you, and if you can't tell me, we might at well stop this [marriage]."
- No self confidence
- Let everything upset himself
- Took displeasure if someone did not like him
- Took it upon himself that everyone should be happy and like him
- Lacked the foundation of a father therefore didn't receive his "balls"
- Did not have the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them, take them as blessings
- Wondered why life was so overwhelming
- No motivation besides to become a child of God
- Antagonizer
- Worn, tired of life, defeated
- Rebellious, no faith in his wife
After
- Apologized for how he treated me when I cam back from my weekend
"I was such a fool to treat you the way I did."
"I am sorry for making you tell me things about your weekend, I am so glad you didn't budge, cause if you had told me, I wouldn't have gotten anything out of it."
- Apologized to his mother with tears in his eyes
"I am so sorry for how I treated you, they were just words."
- Uncontrollable love for his found brothers
- Renewed faith in people
- Understands people won't like him sometimes, accepts that
- Understands that evil will try to bring him down again
- Knows now that I never put him down intentionally
"Ben, you should go to the weekend, you would benefit a lot from it and we would be on the same page."
"Are you telling me that you are better than me cause you went and found God? You think I have issues? You think I'm low and you're better? YOURE FULL OF s**t AND HOW DARE YOU!!!"
------------- "I'm sorry for saying this, I didn't know how bad Satan had a hold of me, and he did, I was his, and I am sorry I didn't see it until now."
- Understands that what he has to do as a father
- Understands what he has to do as a man
- Understands that he is a child of God
- Didn't get angry when put against obstacles
He's not cured but this is a step closer to get him more involved with himself and correcting his behavior, not allowing others to make him upset, control him, make him feel bad about himself.
The Capricorn Community Member 
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