If I had done something wrong then perhaps I would have the need to feel some sort of guilt but I have not wronged so I do not feel guilty.
I made the choice to not spend Christmas with you because I was with my mother and you tried to make me feel guilty about that father dear. It's not like I lied because I did not.
Then you make me feel guilty about not coming to your family's Christmas celebration even though I had told you weeks before that I would still be with my mother. And I good thing I was with her too, she had to work both Christmas Eve and Christmas morning. The only thing I had to feel guilty about at Christmas was wishing selfishly that my mother wasn't working so she could be with me.
Every time I make a choice that you don't like; like a choice to not see you, you always try to make me feel guilty by putting on that stupid sad little voice. Well it doesn't work and nor do your stupid guilt trips. All they do is piss me off.
Why don't you get that I have done nothing wrong and you can't force me or try to make me feel that I have. You've been pulling this sh*t for years, nice to know you still haven't changed.