for some odd reason everyone around is allowed to vent to their hearst content in my family except for me! whenever i vent in this house, im told to grow or to get over it or im makin it more than what it is! it driving me insane! i kno my mom tells me to accept who i am and to know that i am perfect and i need to realize that im beautiful, but hell i dont feel that way and with the attitude she tells me in sounds more like shes cutting me down for just saying how i feel! in her tone of voice and attitude it sounds like what she really saying, "shut up and get over yourself ya selfish b*tch! no one cares what you havta say so no point just listen to wat i said and stop!" even though thats not wat she is really telling me to do it just feels that way to me! what do i do?