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So, facebook likes to add random people for me, like if I have a friend in common it with glitch and add them, even though I may or may not know them.
I don't know if this has ever happened to anyone else before.

Anyways, facebook added this guy, who I know who he is now, but at the time I didn't know him.
He was kinda a childhood friend....I say kinda because I don't really know what we were as kids, if he hated me and used me when we kids or what. It wouldn't surprise me really, my childhood seemed to be filled with that. :[

I know that I liked him, and cared about him when were kids, now whenever I see him on the facebook chat I want to say hi, but am kinda to afraid to say hi. For all I know he either doesn't remember me, or hates me, or remembers me, and like I said before used me as a kid and wants nothing to do with me.

However, if that is the case, why did he add me back? There is always choice to add someone when they add you, right?

So, I said hi today, and he said nothing, which doesn't really confirm or deny anything. I wish he would just say something and get it over it.

I would love to be his friend, he was a cool guy back in the day when I was young and very stupid. I got in so much s**t ALL the time. I was a terrible kid to be honest. Very very very stupid kid. So stupid. I don't remember a lot, but I remember him and the things we did. I am indeed an idiot. Trust me.

Anyways if anyone knows a way that I could talk to him, without it being...weird? that would be cool. He seems really cool now, well he always was to me. XD

Buuut yeeeeah.

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comment Commented on: Sun Nov 13, 2011 @ 01:38am
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              Before you misunderstand that I'm a stalker .. I'M NOT D:
              I merely clicked the journal link and pops up recent entries and your journal entry happened to pop up and therefore I felt the need to respond to this. ♥

              Adding friends on facebook is not a huge thing... nor is deleting friends on facebook a huge thing either. I don't intend to sound mean but think about it, those 300 friends that you have on facebook ... do they ALL mean something special to you? It's more like, oh I know that person so I might as well just add/accept her/him.

              However, if you pm messaged him for something with a "hi", you should still recieve a message back whether he knows you or doesn't. It's common sense to recieve a "hi" back or some sort. Perhaps he doesn't go on facebook frequently, but you can usually tell if he is active or not from his recent activities on facebook. If he doesn't reply, obviously he's not trying to put in an effort to do so.
              ... so he used to use you and hate you but now lately he's cool with you? Are you talking about the same guy? I'm confused ... kinda. If you still want to find a way to approach him, I reccomend you to talk to him whenever he's online on facebook or when you happen to see him coincidentally at some place or somewhere and just struck up a conversation with him. Thats seriously not weird since you guys used to know eachother and it would be more weird if you guys just walked past eachother when you knew eachother.

              I'm sorry I went all out with this comment and I hope you know what I mean.
              "Never chase anyone. A person who appreciates you, will walk with you".

comment Commented on: Sun Nov 13, 2011 @ 01:44pm
Thank you so much :]

I don't think they all my friends are my facebook really mean something to me, but I do know them ALL. Surprisingly, I either went to school with them, or have met them at work and we became friends.

It is a hard situation to explain and I don't want to go into detail because it is FAR to complicated to be understood.
I knew him, at least i think it is him. We were kinda friends I think, but at the same time he used me a lot. If I could explain the situation more, it would make a lot more sense. It's more like me, thinking we were friends, and being delusional, when he might not have even liked me, but just used me to get things. I really don't know.
I do know, however that I want to talk to him. I had a message already to just send him and I am chicken s**t so I never sent it.
It went something like this:

"Hey, I don't know if you are the Brandon I use to know when I was kid. If you are then I think we use to be friends, or something. We lived in the same park anyways...
I actually didn't think it was you, I was going through my friends and deleting people and there you were. I was like "WHO THE ******** IS THIS" so I went and looked at your profile and you look familiar. Facebook is a glitch b***h and adds random people to my Facebook if I have a friend on common with them. You know Melissa Coburn, who is related to my brother in some way.
ANYWAYS I am rambling...back to the point.
If you are that guy I use to know, it would be nice to talk and catch up or something. I mean only if you want to. I don't want you to feel obligated to actually message me back. I am really good at taking hints.
I wish you all the best, you are lookin' good.
Have a good one. :]

-Megan "

So that is what I was going say to him. I just don't know and I really need advice, because well I really did like him as a kid and would have done anything for him, which is why I don't see him as using me, but me actually wanting to do. We got in so much s**t when I was kid. Though it was mainly me. LOL

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