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Let me give some advise for those of u that might like some, those that dont want it dont read. I had a friend ask me for some last night and i did my best to help him as much as i could. He was having probs finding the right one..Well lets just say i've had enough time to tell u all that take ur time a lot of u r still young and still have a lifetime to go. Dont try and hurry because if u do they just might not be the right one. Lets say I thought at one time i had found me the right one, we got married and then about a year and a half later he left me. We were high school sweethearts, the worst part of it is that he left me for my best friend who just happened to be a man. Lets say it crushed my heart because i really thought i had found Mr. Right but he end up being the Mr. Wrong. So from that point on i've had the hardest time finding the one that is the most right for me. Yes there r some that do work out when they start young but there r very few. So take ur time and enjoy life, enjoy dating and when u least expect it the right one will come along. Yeah sometimes it may take longer then planned but u dont want to be hurt in the long run because its the worst feeling in the world. Well so for those of u that would like that advice take it others dont even bother because that means u thiink yourself to good for it...... neutral