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Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.
a not-so-good friendship
first we must identify and define this concept called 'friend' - individuals who maintain a positive association or a form of emotional attachment. something draws us like magnets -> a semi-conscious cost/benefit analysis yielding some perceived advantage.

following, a two-way (or multidirectional) friendship (or group) will result from mutually advantageous cooperation.

a dependent friendship results from the loss in benefits that have been attained in the past, or that were believed to have been attained at present - conditioned by expectations. by refusing to adapt to new conditions, ratio of benefits become unevenly distributed - & the 'fairness' mechanism implements an emotional response to instigate chaos, thus social reorganization.

take what is 'there', without expectations - much of your emotional psychodrama can fade to the corners of mind. otherwise - to "dig your own hole", is what you are doing psychologically. [being honest in speech helps one be honest in mind(?)]

valued friends. you are valued because you serve a purpose, in some way you appear to benefit existence. "friendship" is an equal (or unequal) distribution of semi-rational self-interest connecting various individuals.

. heart .. sweatdrop






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Theclassnerd
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commentCommented on: Tue Jun 02, 2009 @ 10:24pm
True


So apparently librarians don't like it when you take books off their shelves to read them
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commentCommented on: Wed Jun 03, 2009 @ 03:23am
Uhm.. Ok... I get SOME of it... mostly the beginning and the middle... the rest i just said to myself "wtf"... lol

you're right though.



Fyodore
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Xxx_baby_j_breezy_xxX
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commentCommented on: Sun Jun 07, 2009 @ 04:49am
true dad
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commentCommented on: Sun Jun 07, 2009 @ 04:50am
true dat



Xxx_baby_j_breezy_xxX
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iiAndrea
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commentCommented on: Tue Jun 30, 2009 @ 02:00am
That is so definetely true xd (Can people please help with dream avi)


commentCommented on: Fri Jul 24, 2009 @ 01:04pm
i can't believe it took me more than a month to get this.
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Fyodore
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xXxSparkly_Asian_AngelxXx
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commentCommented on: Sat Dec 26, 2009 @ 06:15am
i dont understand a thing u said.. too many hard words.. what is this: emotional physci something and expectations and benefits? those words bunched in together.. i dont understand the story.. unless you explain it to me part by part.. or "Emotion Talk" emo


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